feel wrong after masturbation

[samantha69ding]

Originally Posted by bonobobo

hey guys, so generally I find shemales really attractive and love to watch shemale porn. I fantasize about shemales, too. But, after I masturbate to shemale porn, I always feel disgusted and wrong for an hour or so... before I go back to liking shemales again.

So, I wasn't sure if I was actually attracted to shemales or if it was just a porn-escalation thing, so I didn't watch porn or masturbate for 3 weeks. I found my desires for shemales (and females too) were just as strong after 3 weeks... so I guess it's innate? But if so, why do I feel bad afterwards?

What I would like help with is to know your experiences with this. I don't want to feel like I'm doing something wrong after masturbating to shemales so why do I?

it is called "Post-coital tristesse" or PCT.

Hi, I m new here and I'm searching for self introduction when I came across this post. I hope I can contribute.
cheers

[omni]

Originally Posted by samantha69ding

it is called "Post-coital tristesse" or PCT.

Hi, I m new here and I'm searching for self introduction when I came across this post. I hope I can contribute.
cheers

Welcome samantha69ding. Thanks for the insightful input. Aside from PCT I believe it is possible there is another component to this issue though, as the user indicated they felt disgusted after viewing *shemale* porn specifically. Which leads me to believe it is mostly a psychological issue rather than a physiological one.

[a9127]

Originally Posted by samantha69ding

it is called "Post-coital tristesse" or PCT.

Hi, I m new here and I'm searching for self introduction when I came across this post. I hope I can contribute.
cheers

Welcome to the forum! Interesting post. I had never heard of PCT but that could explain the phenomenon that sometimes occurs after cumming. I have also heard orgasm referred to as "the little death."

But the OP had also said "after I masturbate to shemale porn, I always feel disgusted and wrong for an hour or so..." so I'm in agreement with Omni, there is something else at work.

Speaking entirely from my own experiences, one of the most intense orgasms I've ever had was from masturbating over a picture of Carla Renata in a bathtub a few years ago. I think she’s incredibly beautiful and sexy anyway but there was just something about the way she looked in this particular picture. I did not feel depressed or disgusted afterward. Quite the contrary, it was amazing and very relaxing.

Also I’ve never considered masturbation a “substitute” for sex with another person. That experience is truly awesome in its own way and the intimacy of sex cannot be duplicated when one goes “solo.” Personally, I believe masturbation is an acceptable means of sexual release and a way to experiment with what you like and don’t like. Fantasy often plays a role and allows us to explore feelings we might be reluctant to share with a partner.

If anyone reading this has ever felt something similar to what the OP has described, I hope that you will be able to overcome your guilt and especially your “disgust.” As I said in an earlier post, much of the “anti-masturbation” movement started in the 18th and 19th centuries and continues today although on a lesser scale. The “guilt” associated with it seems to derive from Church doctrine. A search of the Internet will find that many horrible punishments and cruel devices were invented to “cure” young people (both male and female) of this “unspeakable vice.” I think most health professionals today would agree that this “knowledge” has long since been discredited.

[a9127]

On a lighter note, here is an illustration from "The Fatal Consequences of Masturbation" which was published in 1844!

[samantha69ding]

Omni, a9127 - you are both right. It is one of the many contributing factors.

[Pastorn]

Don´t worry about it man!!

[ckit]

This is normal, I've been masturbating since I was 13 and I've learnt to ignore it completely.
I think there is a change in ceratonin levels in the brain and they take a while to re-adjust after orgasm.

Just play a game, reshare pictures on G+ or something else!