Friends with benefits?

[GCharles]

I think no1000 hits the nail on the head. Tell her what you've written here, if she feels the same way good news, if not, then at least you know and can move on and, importantly, Let It Go! It is a very hard thing to do but it's much better than devoting a stupid amount of your time and energy thinking about her rather than moving on and living your life.

Starting to sound like an agony aunt column here lol! Good luck though whatever happens.

[smc]

Originally Posted by GCharles

... Starting to sound like an agony aunt column here lol! Good luck though whatever happens.

Well put. For those of you unfamiliar with the term "agony aunt," it's what the Brits call an advice column.

[LadyboyJerker]

Thanks for the answers.

Writing 2 months forward and the situation is as follows:
1. I got over her for only 2-3 days. Was hard in the first week 'cause I was seeing (and still) her in the university but now I completely don't give a fuck.
2. Just about at the end of March I managed to get in bed with another one, just for one night only. Which was a good decision and really it was with no feelings at all. Not even a spark, lol. That was the good part.

So, I moved forward.
Just to let you know about the case.
Thanks for the advises which were sane compared to me back then.
-Vic

[no1000]

Good for you!