Prostate massage

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by belfagar

Surely to god you must have an appetite. Erotic?

Absolutely, I love sex. The thing is, with Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) the drive for sex becomes different. Men go from 0 to 60 in a second thanks to testosterone.

For me (I have no idea how it is for others), it's a slow simmer. I'm always kinda turned on, but if nothing happens for days or weeks, I'm good. I don't have that drive to "get off". It's hard to explain, I don't quite understand it, and I lived through it. Sex becomes less about physical sensations and more about mental/emotional stimulation. The physical is still important, but purely physical stimulation isn't enough, or it needs to be done over time.

For example, with my ex.. we would start being sexual as soon as we came home from work or school. Not overtly sexual, but subtly sexual. Rubbing my arm when talking to me, nibbling my neck while I'm cooking dinner, giving him an "accidental" peek at my breast while I bend down, running my foot against his leg while watching TV, placing his hand in the small of my back. By the time we went to bed I couldn't wait (often we didn't even make it to bed).

On the other hand, someone whipping out an erection just isn't so hot for me. I really can't crank it up that fast anymore. I know what to do with it, and pleasuring a partner is pretty hot on its own, but usually I just need a little more to get the motor running.

[belfagar]

Do you \ can you masturbate? Since you don't have a partner how do you take care of buisness ?

[Bionca]

In the past year, maybe 5 times. I'll finger myself anally or use a shower massage. It isn't the same as having a fella, but it works in a pinch. It just takes a really long time to get to the point of clymax.

[SHEMALE_SEEKER]

Your describtion is very .. umm... detailed..

[Bionca]

With something this important clarity should be a TOP priority

[russellwu]

... the last two messages made me think of a guy doing it wrong and entering the large intestine instead of stimulating the prostate. >.<

[giancarlo]

Very cool tips. And for free. Thanks.

[gflex]

good theme. very educationable and useful. 10x for it

[sesame]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Absolutely, I love sex. The thing is, with Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) the drive for sex becomes different. Men go from 0 to 60 in a second thanks to testosterone.

For me (I have no idea how it is for others), it's a slow simmer. I'm always kinda turned on, but if nothing happens for days or weeks, I'm good. I don't have that drive to "get off". It's hard to explain, I don't quite understand it, and I lived through it. Sex becomes less about physical sensations and more about mental/emotional stimulation. The physical is still important, but purely physical stimulation isn't enough, or it needs to be done over time.

For example, with my ex.. we would start being sexual as soon as we came home from work or school. Not overtly sexual, but subtly sexual. Rubbing my arm when talking to me, nibbling my neck while I'm cooking dinner, giving him an "accidental" peek at my breast while I bend down, running my foot against his leg while watching TV, placing his hand in the small of my back. By the time we went to bed I couldn't wait (often we didn't even make it to bed).

On the other hand, someone whipping out an erection just isn't so hot for me. I really can't crank it up that fast anymore. I know what to do with it, and pleasuring a partner is pretty hot on its own, but usually I just need a little more to get the motor running.

I find your description of slow eroticism quite enchanting and its certainly better than a stupid Fug*! It goes way deeper emotionally.
It burns like an ember!
And radiates a desirable warmth.
I think it improves a relation too.

[jimnaseum]

HA HA HA. I called a pharmacy once and asked how much their "prostate massager" was. After 10 minutes, the guy came back on and said "What??!!!"

[CreativeMind]

Originally Posted by Bionca

For example, with my ex...we would start being sexual as soon as we came home from work or school. Not overtly sexual, but subtly sexual. Rubbing my arm when talking to me, nibbling my neck while I'm cooking dinner, giving him an "accidental" peek at my breast while I bend down, running my foot against his leg while watching TV, placing his hand in the small of my back. By the time we went to bed I couldn't wait (often we didn't even make it to bed).

Is it just me or does anyone else have the sudden need to go take a cold shower?
Once again Bionca strikes and reminds everyone how special she is! :D

I happened to me without the penis being touched while anal sex. And i can say that i have never feel an orgasm like that.

I can't explain the pleasure and it was a perfect experience for me.
Normally, i don't like anal sex but if i m horny enough i can do it.

But Orgasm without touching penis feels so different experience and u feel a wonderful pleasure inside of u. You feel the pleasure slowly slowly and when the pleasure is on top you feel like something blow into u and your penis squirt your love juice.

I hope i can live that thing again.

[ladyboybcumlvr]

Bionca,if your doing it right does your dick start to tingle?

[new believer]

This thread brought out what most forum members suspected about Bionca. She is knowledgeable in many fields, very sexy,very blunt and knows what she is talking about. But the crack about 'homophobes can't understand how a guy can take it up the ass' (no puns please) I am no homophobe,but I still cannot fathom ANYONE male or female taking it up there. But I will try the massage now that I heard her opinions. Please all of you out there,refrain from the name calling. I know many will be calling me things like 'chicken' or more blunt as in 'chicken shit' but some of us are not as daring or as exposed (vision that play on words,why don't you) to playing 'outside the box. (boy they just keep coming) (and coming). Point is ,please go easy on the 'homophobe'. I remain respectfully yours Ms B. NB

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by new believer

This thread brought out what most forum members suspected about Bionca. She is knowledgeable in many fields, very sexy,very blunt and knows what she is talking about. But the crack about 'homophobes can't understand how a guy can take it up the ass' (no puns please) I am no homophobe,but I still cannot fathom ANYONE male or female taking it up there. But I will try the massage now that I heard her opinions. Please all of you out there,refrain from the name calling. I know many will be calling me things like 'chicken' or more blunt as in 'chicken shit' but some of us are not as daring or as exposed (vision that play on words,why don't you) to playing 'outside the box. (boy they just keep coming) (and coming). Point is ,please go easy on the 'homophobe'. I remain respectfully yours Ms B. NB

Actually, I don't get why a natal female would like to get it in there - there is no prostate tp massage for her. Bio-men on the other hand have that handy bit that makes it oh so sweet.

NB - seriously, do the bit about rubbing the base of the testicles. At the very least, press there when you are about to cum and then give me a full report

[liesjeversteven]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Actually, I don't get why a natal female would like to get it in there - there is no prostate tp massage for her.

Indeed, I love having my g-spot massaged though. I suppose it must be something quite similar.

[desirouspussy]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Actually, I don't get why a natal female would like to get it in there......

In all honesty, I don't!

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by ladyboybcumlvr

Bionca,if your doing it right does your dick start to tingle?

Yes it does tingle. At least that's as good a description as any for the feeling.

[Rachel]

I must have an extra prostate at the base of my throat lol! I have cum many times when giving oral. When he cums so do do I.

[slipper]

Interesting thread. Thanks!

[randolph]

Originally Posted by Rachel

I must have an extra prostate at the base of my throat lol! I have cum many times when giving oral. When he cums so do do I.

Rachel my dear
It's become quite clear
that your bliss
is something I would not want to miss!

[randolph]

Originally Posted by Rachel

I must have an extra prostate at the base of my throat lol! I have cum many times when giving oral. When he cums so do do I.

Dear Rachel,
I wonder if your tonsils have mutated
and that's why you feel elated
when a big one is in place
inside your lovely face