Having a relationship with an escort ? yes

[aguy]

10+ means 10+ years by the way...my bad.

[reynardthefox]

For starters, I wouldn't want to be seriously involved with someone who was either seeing other guys or getting paid for sex with other guys in the first place.

I guess the real question would be if a ladyboy who used to escort could still be good relationship material in some type of monogamous sense. In North America, I have learned from experience to avoid even strippers, let alone prostitutes. Whether the dynamic might be a little different in other places and with trans women is worth discussing.

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by reynardthefox

For starters, I wouldn't want to be seriously involved with someone who was either seeing other guys or getting paid for sex with other guys in the first place.

I guess the real question would be if a ladyboy who used to escort could still be good relationship material in some type of monogamous sense. In North America, I have learned from experience to avoid even strippers, let alone prostitutes. Whether the dynamic might be a little different in other places and with trans women is worth discussing.

And this is where I empirically disagree - by my experience escorts are absolutely just as deep and in need of a relationship than anyone else. And as I said initially, I do speak from personal experience.

I don't think too many others here actually ever gave a hooker a chance - but I did and was not disappointed. Am not disappointed.

So I guess my point is: do not fear or mystify them - they are just girls - however most often with a story to tell... so respect her story and respect her. Give her a chance.

H

[smc]

One of my best friends is a stripper. She has a real life, a young daughter, loves and losses, joy and hardship ... all regular stuff. We are very close, despite the circumstances under which we first met. So, yes, Hank is correct ...