Having a relationship with an escort ? yes

[aguy]

Listen buddy,everybody has an opinion and that's fine with me.

If you believe escorts are the finest people and all punters as you call them are just people who can't fuck someone without paying them then again it's your opinion-not a general fact/truth.

I really like this thread but don't start making general comments because it's just not correct.You say you have escort friends and that could be true but still it doesn't mean all escorts are ''nice'' people as your post suggests.

Also,I am a punter as you say but I never follow anything like a gospel or think all non-punters are idiots who just don't know what's happening in real life.

I have a 10+ experience with escorts,brothels,street prostitutes,shemale prostitutes,massage parlorls,strip clubs-you name it-so don't make comments about me like you know me

Most importantly,don't generalize.

[aguy]

10+ means 10+ years by the way...my bad.

[reynardthefox]

For starters, I wouldn't want to be seriously involved with someone who was either seeing other guys or getting paid for sex with other guys in the first place.

I guess the real question would be if a ladyboy who used to escort could still be good relationship material in some type of monogamous sense. In North America, I have learned from experience to avoid even strippers, let alone prostitutes. Whether the dynamic might be a little different in other places and with trans women is worth discussing.

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by reynardthefox

For starters, I wouldn't want to be seriously involved with someone who was either seeing other guys or getting paid for sex with other guys in the first place.

I guess the real question would be if a ladyboy who used to escort could still be good relationship material in some type of monogamous sense. In North America, I have learned from experience to avoid even strippers, let alone prostitutes. Whether the dynamic might be a little different in other places and with trans women is worth discussing.

And this is where I empirically disagree - by my experience escorts are absolutely just as deep and in need of a relationship than anyone else. And as I said initially, I do speak from personal experience.

I don't think too many others here actually ever gave a hooker a chance - but I did and was not disappointed. Am not disappointed.

So I guess my point is: do not fear or mystify them - they are just girls - however most often with a story to tell... so respect her story and respect her. Give her a chance.

H

[smc]

One of my best friends is a stripper. She has a real life, a young daughter, loves and losses, joy and hardship ... all regular stuff. We are very close, despite the circumstances under which we first met. So, yes, Hank is correct ...