i love tgirls but i love my gf. what do i do?!?!

These in my opinion were excellent advices, Edward. I would not have been able to present them so… I don’t know, methodically and clearly. The most important is always communication. When you share with your partner and communicate, I find that generally, you succeed in relating, which in the end is what a relationship is about. You just try to open up the best you can and expect reciprocity. You make out of your loved one your best friend, as much as you can.
I commend you on your post and hope Dean can take advantage.

[EdwardSinclair]

I don't know how many times I've written it by now...

I AGREE with you Dan, again and again...

Communication is everything!

I mean we are communicating too and building a relationship, so I understand absolutely!

Thank you Dan, and let's wish Dean some luck!!

[merelypink]

i would keep it your little secret!!

[belfagar]

In the last week I had the fortune of bringing my love for tgirls up with my spouse. I didnt think that it would have turned out well. It did though.

She was relieved to find i was kinky as hell. I had kept my secret for many years, I can honestly say at the time of revelation I was scared, and very unprepared.

Good luck with this.

[guiltydreamer]

My advice - dont tell her whatever you do.
Cheat on her if you must, and see transsexuals for sex.
Dont get caught.

I did all of the above - and now my marriage is trashed. However, on the up side, I dont have to lie anymore - which feels good.

[tslust]

Originally Posted by guiltydreamer

Cheat on her if you must, and see transsexuals for sex.

Umm, I'm totally speachless. I'm going to be polite and not say what I'm thinking right now.

As for the OP, you say she knows about the porn, (Honestly we, and yes I'm including myself , usually assume that guys look at porn.) butt she doesn't know about your fondness of special girls. You can go two routes with this, you can either keep it to yourself, she doesn't necessarily need to know. Or you can try to talk to her. Either being blunt about it or work it in to gauge her reaction.

[deanthemachine69]

Thanks for all the responses and advice guys! I appreciate it. I'm going to keep it to myself for now. If this is something I need to hide my whole life to stay with this girl then I think I can do it. I'll stick to my hardcore she male porn for now

[guiltydreamer]

Originally Posted by tslust

Umm, I'm totally speachless. I'm going to be polite and not say what I'm thinking right now.

As for the OP, you say she knows about the porn, (Honestly we, and yes I'm including myself , usually assume that guys look at porn.) butt she doesn't know about your fondness of special girls. You can go two routes with this, you can either keep it to yourself, she doesn't necessarily need to know. Or you can try to talk to her. Either being blunt about it or work it in to gauge her reaction.

Don't hold back - post what's on your mind. I am not proud of my actions & behavior ( far from it) but am honest about it. I love my wife and care for her deeply but sexually my desires are not compatible with hers. I see TS girls for sex and only sex. I pay the requested fee happily. I am not looking for a LTR of any kind with any other person.
From my own experience, my wife is more hurt by her perception that I have been having sex with men ( her term, certainly not mine) and cannot begin to understand that I am physically attracted to a female with a penis. It is for this reason that I advocate secrecy and lying. It's totally fucked up I know, but it's done and I cannot undo it now.