Who would still fancy me post-op?

[jodarling]

Honey your gorgeous and while I like you with a cock i bet you'll be just as lovely without it.

Some guys on here are gonna say they prefer you with, this is a TS Site after all and most readers like girls with that something extra. I know I do, but I like girls without too and your about to become one of those.

What I guess I'm trying to say is some will like you with some without, but anyone who really cares will like YOU and not what you have or haven't got between your legs, that what really counts.

Good luck with your Op honey and I for one would love to see a picture after. x

[littletwink]

Best of luck to you with your surgery. I can't imagine what you might be going through at this time.

I'm sure that your friends and admirers from before will still be your friends once it is finished.

[ila]

Have your operation for yourself and to heck with what anyone else thinks of it. There will always be someone who wants you for who you are and not for what you have or don't have in your pubic area.

Best wishes on your operation.

[GRH]

I fail to see the point of this topic. I don't mean that to come across as rude or condescending, but here is my logic:

1. You're scheduled to have surgery in a week. Will the responses to this topic change that fact?

2. If the answer is yes...Then quite frankly, you've got a lot of emotional insecurity and should have probably never been cleared to have an operation in the first place. If the answer is no...

3. Then we get back to my original point, which is that our feelings (one way or the other) really should not be relevant.

4. Assuming the answer is a "no" (which I hope it is!), then again I ask, what is the point of the topic? If our opinions are not going to sway your surgical outcomes one way or the other, then what merit are our opinions? Perhaps to validate your feelings? Perhaps to make you feel worse about yourself? I don't know...

My own opinion is that you're beautiful regardless of genitalia. Then again, I like women-- both genetic and transgendered-- so you really couldn't go wrong however you end up looking.

[Kitten]

Oh well, here goes my five post limit again, already...

My thinking went something like this:

Already, I am a member of a very small minority. I am almost thirty, and I've dated fewer than ten different people in my entire life. Most of these almost-relationships haven't survived the first week.

I just wondered whether or not, by removing my cock, I was shrinking my pool of potential dates. The answer to this poll makes absolutely no difference to what I need to do for myself. I need female genitalia, for me.

Why am I here? Basically, I'm bored, lonely and scared. I'm just looking for some human contact...

Understand me or not, please don't hate me. I mean no harm, and I'm a good person deep down x

[smc]

Originally Posted by Kitten

Oh well, here goes my five post limit again, already...

My thinking went something like this:

Already, I am a member of a very small minority. I am almost thirty, and I've dated less than ten different people in my entire life. Most of these almost-relationships haven't survived the first week.

I just wondered whether or not, by removing my cock, I was shrinking my pool of potential dates. The answer to this poll makes absolutely no difference to what I need to do for myself. I need female genitalia, for me.

Why am I here? Basically, I'm bored, lonely and scared. I'm just looking for some human contact...

Understand me or not, please don't hate me. I mean no harm, and I'm a good person deep down x

Your poll options are all about the physical you and your cock. You ask about attraction. Personally, I am attracted first and foremost to the strength reflected in this part of what you write above:

The answer to this poll makes absolutely no difference to what I need to do for myself. I need female genitalia, for me.

The strength of conviction and the determination to do what is best for yourself, no matter what ... now THAT'S attractive!!

[connie]

I think that you are a very attractive woman, and with or without a penis, I think that you will not want for attention from whoever you wish. Kisses and more, Connie

[GRH]

I wouldn't worry too much about a pool of potential suitors. I'm 30 and ended up only dating maybe 3 people in my entire life. I will say, becoming a "chick" instead of a "chick with a dick" may actually expand your pool of potentials-- if you're willing to lie (or at least not be totally forthcoming in initial dates). I don't mean to be crude, but when you're the transgendered "chick with a dick," your pool of potential suitors includes many people who view you as nothing more than a sex object or fetish. When you become a "normal" chick, you open yourself up to a world of people who may be open-minded about sexuality, but not quite open-minded enough to get past the penis. You'll always be a bit of freak at heart, but once you stop being the "chick with a dick," you become the girl that a guy can take home to their mother. I don't know...It's very late and I fear I'm not making sense.

Speaking on a personal level, I've never really gotten off on breasts, genitalia, etc. Honestly, the first and most important thing that I notice about a person is their face. And honey, you've got a cute one. You could have a three-headed dragon between your legs and were I single, I'd still date you if only because you've got a cute face.

[johnchi]

Originally Posted by Kitten

Oh well, here goes my five post limit again, already...

My thinking went something like this:

Already, I am a member of a very small minority. I am almost thirty, and I've dated fewer than ten different people in my entire life. Most of these almost-relationships haven't survived the first week.

I just wondered whether or not, by removing my cock, I was shrinking my pool of potential dates. The answer to this poll makes absolutely no difference to what I need to do for myself. I need female genitalia, for me.

Why am I here? Basically, I'm bored, lonely and scared. I'm just looking for some human contact...

Understand me or not, please don't hate me. I mean no harm, and I'm a good person deep down x

Dear Kitten,
I voted for you to keep your cock but having read your posts i go along with whatever you want. You are a beautiful and warm person(from your comments)

how could anyone hate you? If they do then they are totally fucked up.

You will find love with someone who will respect you. Good luck with the op.

hugs with respect

[ila]

Originally Posted by johnchi

Dear Kitten,
I voted for you to keep your cock but having read your posts i go along with whatever you want. You are a beautiful and warm person(from your comments)

how could anyone hate you? If they do then they are totally fucked up.

You will find love with someone who will respect you. Good luck with the op.

hugs with respect

Do you realize that she has already had her operation?

[besorted]

Originally Posted by Kitten

Oh well, here goes my five post limit again, already...

My thinking went something like this:

Already, I am a member of a very small minority. I am almost thirty, and I've dated fewer than ten different people in my entire life. Most of these almost-relationships haven't survived the first week.

I just wondered whether or not, by removing my cock, I was shrinking my pool of potential dates. The answer to this poll makes absolutely no difference to what I need to do for myself. I need female genitalia, for me.

Why am I here? Basically, I'm bored, lonely and scared. I'm just looking for some human contact...

Understand me or not, please don't hate me. I mean no harm, and I'm a good person deep down x

You're delightful and it's the femininity, that all that matters, I love ladyboys and TSs, both and sexually for me as a straight man both are total turn ons.
Hope you'll share post op pics to, good luck, I'd love to date you