cheating and guilt

[humbolt77]

No I'm not saying either is better, just saying that maybe I was trying to feel less guilty but failing miserably. We have all heard of the scenario where a guy gets caught by his wife, but it was with another guy. Wife is devastated, but finds it somehow less painful than if he had cheated with another woman....
Like I said, cheating is cheating whichever way you cut it

[franalexes]

I have had some dates, only to learn later the guy was married. I realized also the date was for the "novelty" of being with a sexy gurl and not an affection of the heart. The way to his heart may be through his stomack, but the way to his head is a quick knee lift to his crotch!