So, I'm back...

[aussiepride]

i couldnt agree more with u mate, "shemales" is such a bad term.
my gf says of all the things to call a transexual woman, shemale is the worst.

as for dating, surely you tried adultmatchmaker.
its where i met my girl.
and met about a half dozen more that were into serious ltr.
true most of them on there are escorts or cds, but you can find the rare one.

also try like dateinasia, many of the thai and philo girls come here, so maybe find a girl there you like.
and although i not on there myself, but i have heard oasis dating site (oasis active) has a lot of ts on there. a few friends of my gf are on there and they all looking for ltr.

other than internet, finding one in street or club is rare.