Gay, Bisexual, Str8?

[TrannyLover2]

Labels are...silly? Unnecessary? Harsh?

I love women. I haven't had much experience, but what I've had has been very good. But I fantasize about them, I desire them, I want them. And I'm not married yet, but I see me sharing my life only with a woman. Always have. Most probably always will.

Men don't do anything for me. Gay porn really doesn't make anything for me. Cock doesn't do anything for me.

Yet I am very much turned on by shemales. It's something about their eyes, something about their curves and moans (in vids, particularly when they don't seem to pretend) that I find extremely sensual. Unfortunately I haven't been with one yet. But I'm sure I will at some point.

I suppose there must be something bisexual about me in that sense. But it's all so complicated and, let's face it, I believe I should put more effort into sleeping with women and/or shemales (or whatever rocks each one's boat), than worrying about labels.

[smc]

Originally Posted by TrannyLover2

Labels are...silly? Unnecessary? Harsh?

I love women. I haven't had much experience, but what I've had has been very good. But I fantasize about them, I desire them, I want them. And I'm not married yet, but I see me sharing my life only with a woman. Always have. Most probably always will.

Men don't do anything for me. Gay porn really doesn't make anything for me. Cock doesn't do anything for me.

Yet I am very much turned on by shemales. It's something about their eyes, something about their curves and moans (in vids, particularly when they don't seem to pretend) that I find extremely sensual. Unfortunately I haven't been with one yet. But I'm sure I will at some point.

I suppose there must be something bisexual about me in that sense. But it's all so complicated and, let's face it, I believe I should put more effort into sleeping with women and/or shemales (or whatever rocks each one's boat), than worrying about labels.

By writing that you love women, and then writing "yet I am very much turned on by shemales," you have introduced ungendering language into your post. I encourage you, and other members who have not yet done so, to read here:

http://forum.transladyboy.com/showthread.php?t=7311

Using "yet" implies that these people who turn you on are not women. Perhaps that was not your intention, but language is very important and must be used with care.

[TrannyLover2]

Originally Posted by smc

By writing that you love women, and then writing "yet I am very much turned on by shemales," you have introduced ungendering language into your post. I encourage you, and other members who have not yet done so, to read here:


Using "yet" implies that these people who turn you on are not women. Perhaps that was not your intention, but language is very important and must be used with care.

I certainly had no intention to offend and/or discriminate. I obviously have not fully understood certain terms, but that wasn't on purpose. And just to make it clear, I know transwomen are female. I'll make sure I read on the subject, starting from the link above. My phrasing won't be as unfortunate or thoughtless in the future. Apologies to anyone who may have taken issue with what I have written, it won't happen again.

[transjen]

I am who i am and that's all that i am
In other words i'm just me
Jerseygirl Jen

[jake1669]

Originally Posted by transjen

I am who i am and that's all that i am
In other words i'm just me
Jerseygirl Jen

That's what I'm talking about!!