Heterosexual - Homosexual -Lesbian - Bisexual - or Trysexual, My sex life - LABLES LABLES LABLES!

[LonelySatyr]

If you like vegetables does that make you a vegetarian? If you drink the occasional beer does that make you an alcoholic? If you walk does that forever make you a pedestrian and never a driver?

Obviously the answer to all of these is no, however sexuality often encourages us to stamp a label onto someone or something that it may not fit, to make ourselves feel more comfortable with something we don't fully understand or may not be comfortable with.

Most of my female friends have some kind of sexual attraction to females on some level. Some have practiced it frequently, some are living what one might label a "lesbian" life style, and some only fantasize about it on rare occasions but might not want to discuss it with anyone.

A lesbian friend of mine is attracted to some men, and this isn't unusual. Although she would probably never have sex with a guy again as long as she lives, she is fine with her man-crushes and doesn't blink about her self-identity as a lesbian.

I have guys friends who would otherwise be considered gay, but they have a fascination with boobs. Women's boobs, not shemale boobs. But they are "gay"

I myself believe that all of us fall somewhere between the extremes of 100% heterosexual and 100% homosexual in the electromagnetic spectrum of human sexuality, and that we can drift along that spectrum in different intensities as we go through life, and that this is perfectly normal. Labels are for canned foods not people.

[svnd]

I believe I'm as straight as can be, can't stand the idea of me being with a guy...
But i love ladyboys, they're just women without the downsides of women!

[tlover]

Originally Posted by svnd

I believe I'm as straight as can be, can't stand the idea of me being with a guy...
But i love ladyboys, they're just women without the downsides of women!

And with the upside of a cock:D

[inadaze]

would someone who doesnt see himself as gay be attracted to feminine trannys who might be only part time trannys ? i saw a profile online a while ago of someone exactly like that . she looked fantastic all dressed up with the photography well done , maybe camera tricks who knows but no hormones or surgery. In the small print it said she spends her time (unwillingly) in work as a man (no pics of her as a man available) which kind of bothered the side of me which doesnt like men,

[tlover]

Originally Posted by inadaze

would someone who doesnt see himself as gay be attracted to feminine trannys who might be only part time trannys ? i saw a profile online a while ago of someone exactly like that . she looked fantastic all dressed up with the photography well done , maybe camera tricks who knows but no hormones or surgery. In the small print it said she spends her time (unwillingly) in work as a man (no pics of her as a man available) which kind of bothered the side of me which doesnt like men,

That's an interesting point, i have searched through local/national personal adds in the past for tgirls only to find that most where men dressed as women.
Most looked horrible, but their are a few that look quite feminine and attractive, but the downside of no tits.
Trouble is i just see them as men dressed as women, obviously thay are and i seem to find this quite disturbing as well.
I just find it a complete turn off.
I wonder how far down the gender reassignment route thay have to be before i begin to fancy them.
Its all very confusing this tgirl sex lark.

[tlover]

Thinking about it now, i would find it off putting if she had a deep voice, that would be quite important to me.
Also tits, the only tgirl i have found attractive without them is Nancy for some reason, but even then i keep wanting and imagining her to have tits, and found my self liking her without them a little weird.
Apart from the physical side she would have to be fairly feminin in her ways as well, i suppose i would have to make compromises in quite a few areas but I'm not sure where i would begin to fancy her and not fancy her, or begin to see her more as man than tgirl?
I'm even more confused now.

I consider my self stright but like girls and shemales but i would never go out with a shemale with a deep voice,i only like if they are famine