Marriage and Life

Originally Posted by smc

I must say that I find it a bit offensive that you wrote: "Right now, it might be all party and fuck fests, but do you think that will last forever."

I am reasonably sure that it is not your intent, but to write such a statement presumes that transwomen are all inordinately sexual (compared to the rest of the population, for whom parties and fuckfests are certainly not a daily occurrence), or that they are involved in the porn industry. This is more proof of how important it is to weigh our words carefully.

Many of the transwomen who are members here have posted time and again that this kind of stereotypical view of them is disturbing and simply wrong.

Well put SMC. Really couldn't have put it better myself.

But of course I want to find love. That's pretty much all I've wanted for a long time now. The problem is that way to many men don't view us as possible marriage material. But as Jenn has put. Trans women need love too.

As for who I'll love. I really don't know. I'm bi so that person could be a man or a woman.

[sosed]

Of course it all depends on every individual himself / herself what he / she wish and want in his / her life. But in general transwoman is human being as well as genetic man or genetic woman, so she as any human being need to love and to be loved, to be safe, to have friends, partner and family, to have someone who cares for her.

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I truly hope that everyone who has posted in this thread finds true love and if they desire it, a long and wonderful marriage. If I can ever find the right woman, I would gladly marry her.

Any takers?

[fouteur]

For 3 years now I am with the same girl, first flirting, then falling in love, and now living together. In May of next year we will marry in Belgium.
A ladyboy is like a "nomal" girl, with the same dreams and expectations. At least, my partner is.
So my wishes for 2012: may you all find true love and happiness with a lovely girl!

[smc]

Originally Posted by fouteur

For 3 years now I am with the same girl, first flirting, then falling in love, and now living together. In May of next year we will marry in Belgium.
A ladyboy is like a "nomal" girl, with the same dreams and expectations. At least, my partner is.
So my wishes for 2012: may you all find true love and happiness with a lovely girl!

Congratulations to you. I wish you the same love and happiness you wish for the rest of us.

While your partner may be okay with the way you have used the word "normal" here, I know many transwomen who would not ... and I urge you not to post in that way here.

[tslust]

Originally Posted by Alan469

Right now, it might be all party and fuck fests, but do you think that will last forever?

Those days are pretty much behind me. Things like job and responsibility kinda put sex parties on the back burner. Also, I've kinda moved past trying to ride every jock I meet. I like to get to know the guy now.

Originally Posted by ThirdEyeGirl

But of course I want to find love. That's pretty much all I've wanted for a long time now. The problem is that way to many men don't view us as possible marriage material. But as Jenn has put. Trans women need love too.

Most guys see me not as marrage material, rather they see me as some kind of sex toy. I have learned to accept that, and I love using them to scratch that special itch. However, at the same time, I want more.

Originally Posted by tslust

Most guys see me not as marrage material, rather they see me as some kind of sex toy. I have learned to accept that, and I love using them to scratch that special itch. However, at the same time, I want more.

Yeah most guys view me the same way, but I won't accept that. I'd rather not get laid at all (witch is what happens more often than not) than be with someone who just wants to use me for sex. :/

[tslust]

Originally Posted by ThirdEyeGirl

Yeah most guys view me the same way, but I won't accept that. I'd rather not get laid at all (witch is what happens more often than not) than be with someone who just wants to use me for sex. :/

I know what you mean. Accepted wasn't the right word. It usually doesn't get to me. Butt if the guy is a total jerk, I'd rather just play with my toys, at least they don't have an ego or an attitude.

Originally Posted by tslust

I know what you mean. Accepted wasn't the right word. It usually doesn't get to me. Butt if the guy is a total jerk, I'd rather just play with my toys, at least they don't have an ego or an attitude.

Yep... To bad my toys don't scratch my itch to well. :/

Originally Posted by ThirdEyeGirl

Yep... To bad my toys don't scratch my itch to well. :/

Consider my itch scratched. Hopefully more than once. I like him.

[tslust]

Originally Posted by ThirdEyeGirl

Consider my itch scratched. Hopefully more than once. I like him.

Congrats Is he a keeper?

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Originally Posted by ThirdEyeGirl

Consider my itch scratched. Hopefully more than once. I like him.

I sincerely hope that it works out for you.

[shadows]

Originally Posted by tslust

I know what you mean. Accepted wasn't the right word. It usually doesn't get to me. Butt if the guy is a total jerk, I'd rather just play with my toys, at least they don't have an ego or an attitude.

And they won't fart or scratch their privates.

[JodieTs]

My man wants to marry me,
but he can do better.
(with someone whose warranty hasn't expired)

Originally Posted by JodieTs

My man wants to marry me,
but he can do better.
(with someone whose warranty hasn't expired)

Jodie, don't say that about your self. Just because the warranty has expired doesn't mean your going to break down anytime soon. That is unless you were made at Microsoft. Please tell me you weren't. Cause if you were you need to be replaced immediately.

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Originally Posted by JodieTs

My man wants to marry me,
but he can do better.
(with someone whose warranty hasn't expired)

You shouldn't sell yourself so short, Misha. You have many good qualities, and your warranty is far from expired.