Pre-Op or Post Op?

Originally Posted by maracujaca

For some reason I always found vaginas unattractive and useless and men don't turn me on, so one day I hired a "shemale" and everything was as it should be.

I understand why most transexual girls or whatever they want to be called do not feel themselves as girls with dicks, but I do not understand why they feel that it is an insult that some of us want just that. A real girl with a real dick.

Well it's not that we deny what we are or scorn (for the most part) those who are attracted to our kind.
It's just that the term "dick girl" is derogatory, and demeaning. It's as if you were to call a cis girl on the street a "skank", "ho", or "bitch".

The sad fact is that most who are attracted to transgendered people, get their attraction from porn (most cases). And that can lead to the person developing a "fetish" for trans, and want to act out what he or she sees from porn. And in a lot of cases, most girls don't want to be treated that way and do not enjoy it. I know because I am one of those girls who had (recently) had an experience with such a guy.
But it really shouldn't matter what's between our legs. Doesn't make us any less of a woman or a man (added man in there for the trans men ). I mean to call us "shemale", "dick girl", or "ladyboy" makes (most) of us think that all you care about is our bodies and not about us as a whole (with the exception of girls that call them selfs that).
I mean it's perfectly fine for you to have a preference, hell I share the same preference. But make sure to no offend the people that you are attracted to or you'll only have your fantasies, and no experiences (unless your willing to pay for it).
Because the most exposure any of us trans people out there get, is sadly porn and it's over exaggerated portrait of trans men and women. The average trans person is nothing like the ones you see in porn, except for perhaps body.