Help...I keep thinking about being trans...

Originally Posted by KittyKaiti

If your desires and interests are wishing you were a transsexual and not an actual woman, it may just be a fetish for you.

I wish I wasn't a transsexual. I wished and still desperately want to be a woman with a vagina and hell even a uterus, ovaries and eggs with the ability to have children. I wanted that XX chromosome, not this damn XY and "female" on my birth certificate. I don't want the harassment and discrimination because as a woman, I wouldn't have that problem.

I feel the same way Kaiti. Though if I had a second chose. I would be to just be a gay guy. So I wouldn't have to go through as much hardship as most trans people have to go through.

You may not realize this ConfusedMe. But being a transsexual is much harder than being a gay man. Homosexuality is much more widely known and accepted than transgendered is.

But from what I can tell from ConfusedMe post. He may be bi-gendered or genderqueer.
My advice would be to research more of the transgender spectrum and see where you fit. Than you should really find a transgender specialized therapist who you can talk to about this.

Now as a more constructive way of going about this (scene you are looking for insight).
Why do you feel that being a trans woman would be more fun than just being the gay man that you are?

Miranda