Man, what happening to me

[merelypink]

Yes i hope she used a condom... ALways use a condom

[MxKanAmrKan]

Well seems to me like you have answered your own question. After having sex with her you have realized that you like t-girls more than girls, so go with that and maybe one day you go back to liking girls more than t-girls, or not.

For me, not to insult anyone but watching t-girls and transsexual porn, its just a fantasy and would not do anything as I am married and that is as far as I want to take it, just a "porn thing"... for those of you that have taken it further, awesome for you...

[smc]

Originally Posted by MxKanAmrKan

Well seems to me like you have answered your own question. After having sex with her you have realized that you like t-girls more than girls, so go with that and maybe one day you go back to liking girls more than t-girls, or not.

For me, not to insult anyone but watching t-girls and transsexual porn, its just a fantasy and would not do anything as I am married and that is as far as I want to take it, just a "porn thing"... for those of you that have taken it further, awesome for you...

In the text I've bolded above, "t" in front of girls should be an adjective. However, if you don't similarly use an adjective in front of the other kind of girls, one might surmise that you are distinguishing "t-girls" as not "girls." I do not think that is your intent, but the post does provide an opportunity to remind all of the importance of language and, especially here, of not using ungendering language.

[JodieTs]

To be pedantic.
All the porn models are over 18, so shouldn't he have referred to us as
T-women?
And you then pointed out this distinguishes us from women....
....which of course, pre-operative Transsexual women are {plumbing wise}
and for the sake of clarity on a trans-porn site, this seems reasonable.
Otherwise everyone will have no idea whether the person being referred to here
is a woman
or a woman with a transsexual element (Pre-op & non-op only)
(post-op Ts women acknowledged)
In real life however......grrrrrr!

[smc]

Originally Posted by JodieTs

To be pedantic.
All the porn models are over 18, so shouldn't he have referred to us as
T-women?
And you then pointed out this distinguishes us from women....
....which of course, pre-operative Transsexual women are {plumbing wise}
and for the sake of clarity on a trans-porn site, this seems reasonable.
Otherwise everyone will have no idea whether the person being referred to here
is a woman
or a woman with a transsexual element (Pre-op & non-op only)
(post-op Ts women acknowledged)
In real life however......grrrrrr!

Jodie, I know you know the point I was making, so I'm just going to let my post stand without a further response.

[MxKanAmrKan]

I am sorry, I do not mean to insult anyone and before I typed it I kept thinking "how can I type it to where I dont use any offensive terms but also be able to get my point across of telling the difference between the two women I am writting about"

I apologize if I offended anyone.

I re-read the "ungendering" post and as I understand it the OP used the term "transwomen" and "women" so is that the correct terms I should use?

[smc]

Originally Posted by MxKanAmrKan

I am sorry, I do not mean to insult anyone and before I typed it I kept thinking "how can I type it to where I dont use any offensive terms but also be able to get my point across of telling the difference between the two women I am writting about"

I apologize if I offended anyone.

I re-read the "ungendering" post and as I understand it the OP used the term "transwomen" and "women" so is that the correct terms I should use?

As I wrote earlier, I did not think you intended to offend anyone. My post was not aimed at you, but for everyone. There are women, and within that larger group there are transwomen and genetic women or GGs. The point is that they are ALL women.

[franalexes]

Originally Posted by smc

Jodie, I know you know the point I was making, so I'm just going to let my post stand without a further response.

So often here we see the un-initiated stumbling over the right or wrong words to describe a feeling or situation they have never had to deal with before. Correctly stated or maybe not; it isn't worth fighting over. So someone has discovered transexual sex! Whoop-dee-freekie- do

All points noted.

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by franalexes

So often here we see the un-initiated stumbling over the right or wrong words to describe a feeling or situation they have never had to deal with before. Correctly stated or maybe not; it isn't worth fighting over. So someone has discovered >>>transexual<<< sex! Whoop-dee-freekie- do

All points noted.

SMC,
I don't want to make a big issue about this ............much
Fran has misspelt the word "Transsexual"
Can you tell her off, or somting...