I found T-Girl Porn on my Cousin's Computer!

[tslust]

Some guys are real defensive about their (for lack of better words) private life. Also, many guys who are into gurls with a little surprise, feel that they have to validate their hetrosexuality (espically if they keep their interests a secret). Something you might do is send him a joke email, with a fully clothed t-girl and ask him if he would "do" her. If he says yes, send him a pic of the same girl showing her goods and see what he says.

[no1000]

As tslust said..you should joke around with him and see where it goes.

Lately my friend and I have been jokng around with the subject because of the movie hang over 2. Things like, "hey would you do this chick?" what if she had a dick? would you let a tgirl bang you for 1 million dollars?" But he always refers to them as men. I think I said something like, "most tgirls look better than our obese population." The conversations never really went anywhere though. Kinda sucks but I tried.

Hmmm - my question would be, why do you feel the need to ask him about it?

It may well be something he feels very defensive about - or even embarrassed, as he has a girlfriend. You might even find he becomes annoyed about it - accusing you of looking at his private files and stuff like that.

If it was loads of straight stuff you'd found would you mention it?

Just wondering...

[GRH]

Unless you're hoping to become mutual masturbation buddies, I really don't see what you have to gain by mentioning it to him. I take it that you're fairly "self-sufficient" in your ability to scour the internet for porn...It's not like you need his assistance to provide you with T-girl porn. I tend to view one's sexual appetites as a matter to be kept private. I mean...It might be one thing if you trolling for other swingers/sexual kinks/etc. and found out that your neighbor was into what you were into...Maybe a fruitful threesome could come of it. But your cousin? Even the mutual masturbation scenario seems gross when it's between relatives.

[SluttyShemaleAnna]

I took a look at a friends Kazaa downloads one time, with the intention of mocking his taste in music, and found it full of porno. Sooo, what did I do? closed the window and pretended I hadn't seen of course.

Don't be poking ur nose in a fellas porno! That be he's bizzynus and not thee's, so unless he should bring the subject of pr0ns then don't mention it.

Think about it the other way round. What if someone was nosing about on you compooty and found ur stash then started making casual tranny references, you would know if they liked the same or if they disaproved or what, you'd be like "arrrrgh, busted" n probly freak out.

best thing is just leave it.

[katieayanami]

i would keep quiet unless he brings it up. no need to put him on the spot.

[TheUser]

Yeah, I definitely second the overall sentiment in this thread. His porn is his private business, best to just let it go. Not knowing either of you, obviously, I think if you approached him about it, it would likely do more harm than good.

Are you open with people about your attraction to shemales? If not, how would you feel if a family member approached you?

I had a couple of roommates find some on my computer, years ago. It was VERY awkward. I made a weak effort to explain, knowing full well that it was pointless even before I opened my mouth. We remained friends, but I'm sure their opinion of me changed quite a bit. Couldn't imagine if it was a family member.

[parr]

Originally Posted by katieayanami

i would keep quiet unless he brings it up. no need to put him on the spot.

I agree with Katie, I think I would wait too.

[DudeMan]

Originally Posted by tslust

Some guys are real defensive about their (for lack of better words) private life. Also, many guys who are into gurls with a little surprise, feel that they have to validate their hetrosexuality (espically if they keep their interests a secret). Something you might do is send him a joke email, with a fully clothed t-girl and ask him if he would "do" her. If he says yes, send him a pic of the same girl showing her goods and see what he says.

I would do as tslust suggests, but I would wait a while(otherwise he might assume you were just snooping around on his pc). But you weren't snooping around, it was right in front of your face. This makes me think that he is at least somewhat open about his admiration for t-girls. I'm very defensive about people knowing that I'm into transsexuals, but at the same time I would like to have more people to talk to about it. If you're going to say something to your cousin, you should make sure that you can show him that you're really into trannies(maybe have a gallery somewhere that you can show him if he reacts positively to a fully clothed t-girl, or send him a link to your profile on this forum). You have nothing to lose by showing him a fully clothed shemale and seeing his reaction, but you have a lot to gain by becoming cousintrannyadmirers.