New to this and a little nervous

[hankhavelock]

Being attracted to ladyboys does not make you gay - very few gays, in fact, are atracted to ladyboys. Obviously, since a ladyboy is a girl.

Enjoy!

[LonelySatyr]

There are lots of men and women out there who understand fully what you are going through, myself included. My own wife is a very open minded and accepting individual on all levels, but even she is creeped out by shemales and so forth and thus my arousal for them.

Unfortunately it has pushed this aspect of my sexuality into hiding, which is never a healthy thing, but necessary under the circumstances.

I have given up worrying about whether or not I am "gay" or "straight" or "bi" because of this, and I have a new way of looking at it.

We label things to make them easier to understand, but just because we try to put the human being into a fixed category it doesn't mean it will fit. If you like vegetables, it doesn't mean you are a vegetarian. So my advice to you is to relax and enjoy, you've just discovered a whole new world of sensation and experience!

to answer your question, yes.. you obviously havn't looked around at the other posts.. there is plenty of talk about this.. in fact like you, when i first joined i posted a similar topic to this one. i too am straight and had trouble understanding my desire for tgirls

[inadaze]

I realised after a long time of ignoring the fact that (apart from liking ordinary girls), I am extremely curious about transexual girls. They make me rock hard horny and I have been applying my intellect to understanding whats happening and what this means.
So I'm new to this too and discovered this site while researching TS porn and other information

Unlike you I'm not married so its not so complicated. I dont know how married men feel about this ? Do they cheat on their wives ? or do they have understanding wives?

I am trying to figure out how to have my first discreet transexual experience. It aint easy. I ve never been even close to one before. I dont feel right now anyways that I want to go public especially as I dont know what my role is in all of this. And the rest of my life is completely normal. It would shock a lot of people who would never guess this about me. This fact makes me nervous too.

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by inadaze

I am trying to figure out how to have my first discreet transexual experience. It aint easy. I ve never been even close to one before. I dont feel right now anyways that I want to go public especially as I dont know what my role is in all of this. And the rest of my life is completely normal. It would shock a lot of people who would never guess this about me. This fact makes me nervous too.

Why not just go for it? There's nothing neither dangerous nor abnormal about having a good relationship with a transsexual woman.

Surely, there may be a little whispering in the corners but the major hurdle is the one you impose on your self :-)

[fvillon1]

Originally Posted by guest

to answer your question, yes.. you obviously havn't looked around at the other posts.. there is plenty of talk about this.. in fact like you, when i first joined i posted a similar topic to this one. i too am straight and had trouble understanding my desire for tgirls

yes I definatley did read the forum and your thread was really helpful to me, I just wanted to introduce myself. I'm married and that really complicates things, I've never cheated on my wife (married for 5 years) and I'd feel very guilty if I ever did, but this desire I have for TS girls is so strong and I'm actually contemplating it.

Honestly I've wanted to end our marriage for a while but i don't want to hurt her, like I said it's complicated. Oh well I guess I'll have to settle for TS porn and jerking off while she's at work or sleeping.

[scotty1090]

i could care less, gay or straight. i'm embracing it.

[t.j]

I too am new to this. Not new to jerking off over shemales, ladyboys and tranny's but discussing my fantasies with like minded people. I've read a few of the posts and it apprears that i'm not the only one struggling with the issue of being attracted to a woman with a cock. Don't get me worng I love my women, but boy arn't girls with nutts so f**king hot.
ps: i don't see any fans of Allanah Starr

[sekretter]

I've been jerking to shemales probrably since I knew how to mastrubate. I know exactly how you feel. Can't really let anyone else know about this fetish though because people automatically assume it makes you gay/bi to like trannies..

I used to just like the idea of a female with a penis, but it sorta turns me on now, just the idea to know a girl used to be a guy