Taking the plunge - having a TS gf

[jolo]

Originally Posted by hurleur

Hi all,

I have been seen an escort TS for now more than 1 year. We get on v well both sexually and personality-wise. We often chat after great sex. We have hinted several times at seeing each other on a non-professional basis. She said half joking i could stay overnight with her. I also hinted half jokingly that i would like to take her out. Despite all of that we have not yet crossed the line.

So the question i have for all is whether i should cross the line and if yes how.

Thanks

Hurleur

Hurleur,

In light of Jodie's honest posting (and I greatly appreciate her honesty), I think you have nothing to lose, as long as:

• You are prepared to handle the potential rejection and hopefully not personalize on it.
• The truth is that you never know what is on her mind and what her personal situation is, unless you respectful ask her if she would like you in her personal life.

I actually have a tip that I got from a friend of mine, after a long time relationship broke up and I really didn't know what to do.
Ask her to lunch. It is great, non-committal, informal, short, no pressure.

Without having to ask her out for a date, I would find out her situation and see if she was open for a date. Many times I would really get surprised and at worst, I had a pleasant hour.

I have to say that if it was me, the worst thing would be not knowing and not sending her a signal of some sort. Who knows, she might be thinking the same and would like to "let you in".

Think positive, but keep Jodie's remarks in mind.


Jon