Just saying hello

[Rainrider]

Originally Posted by smc

Welcome to the site. Your introductory post is rather odd, I must say. Perhaps you haven't explored the site fully. Yes, it is a porn site (surprised?) and there are lots of posts in the Freebies section where people express what they would like to do with the models whose pictures they post. That should come as no surprise. However, there is a robust Chat section in which serious discussions unfold about trans issues. Further, there is rigorous enforcement of rules against UNGENDERING language and against disrespectful language, especially against other members.

I think your statements require a bit more explanation.

If by any chance my words seem to be disrespectful, it may be that I am not one sugar coat things. I do say things as I see them. How ever, I am also one that does always wish to show respect where it is do. Though I do my best not speak of things that are unwonted, When it seems that others are being disrespected, and no one is standing up for them I stand my ground and dig in. I have read many of the post here, and though I found many to be of bad taste, I said nothing.
You may find it hard to believe this, but I came to this sight after another one like this had closed down. I was drown to it by the intellect of the people I talked with. It would be great to have at lest one of them to find me posting here. I miss the long talks, and shearing of wisdom that had became a part of my life. For me to ever look up on a person in solely a sexual way would be to turn my back on all I have loved of people.
This is as you can see not an explanation. It is simply to make clear where I stand. This will not change nor will I back away from what I see as right. should this mean I am removed from the forum so be it. Though I am sure that there must be at lest one other person that thinks a topic dealing with intellect rather than sex would be a refreshing change. I will how ever not say another word about how others are treated, or talked to. As they may enjoy this. So I will stay with my thoughts, do what I can to make friends, and leave it at that.

[smc]

Originally Posted by Rainrider

If by any chance my words seem to be disrespectful, it may be that I am not one sugar coat things. I do say things as I see them. How ever, I am also one that does always wish to show respect where it is do. Though I do my best not speak of things that are unwonted, When it seems that others are being disrespected, and no one is standing up for them I stand my ground and dig in. I have read many of the post here, and though I found many to be of bad taste, I said nothing.
You may find it hard to believe this, but I came to this sight after another one like this had closed down. I was drown to it by the intellect of the people I talked with. It would be great to have at lest one of them to find me posting here. I miss the long talks, and shearing of wisdom that had became a part of my life. For me to ever look up on a person in solely a sexual way would be to turn my back on all I have loved of people.
This is as you can see not an explanation. It is simply to make clear where I stand. This will not change nor will I back away from what I see as right. should this mean I am removed from the forum so be it. Though I am sure that there must be at lest one other person that thinks a topic dealing with intellect rather than sex would be a refreshing change. I will how ever not say another word about how others are treated, or talked to. As they may enjoy this. So I will stay with my thoughts, do what I can to make friends, and leave it at that.

Again, I would encourage you to explore this site before you paint with such a broad brush. I think you will find it impossible to reserve for yourself a perspective that is, in fact, shared by others here. I think you will notice that there are lots of discussions here that intellectual and not (exclusively) sexual. I think you will find that there are many others here to rise to the defense of people who are disrespected, ungendered, and otherwise attacked inappropriately.

[Rainrider]

Originally Posted by smc

Again, I would encourage you to explore this site before you paint with such a broad brush. I think you will find it impossible to reserve for yourself a perspective that is, in fact, shared by others here. I think you will notice that there are lots of discussions here that intellectual and not (exclusively) sexual. I think you will find that there are many others here to rise to the defense of people who are disrespected, ungendered, and otherwise attacked inappropriately.

I really do not think I was doing that. As I though I made clear, the ideas are not mine, they came from the things I have talked of with many people. It was not on this sight no, though I would not think they are the only ones on earth that think the way they do.
I also will not say, and did not think I implied, I am the only one to defend others on this sight. Being dyslexic I have a real hard time putting in writing what my mind thinks. Having words letters and at times phrases missing from what I think I see. It is one of the things that drives others nuts when they first strat reading any thing from me. If this will be a problum I can stop posting. I do not wish to be a burden on any one.
As for the post on here other than porn I simply have not found them. It takes time to wad through the great number of post you have on here. Though I did find one I hope to see others reply to. The one about what you like about faces. That could become interesting to say the lest. Being how I love to try and read folks by their face, then see how close I am to right. It really gets fun when you are trying to read the face of a joker. That is why I am always looking at eyes, they can tell you more about a person than any thing you can loook at.