Top or Bottom

[tlover]

I cant belive so many have voted both equally.
Are you really thinking about this guys, i mean to be fucked in the ass and to fuck someone in the ass are totally different sensations, surely you would then desire one MORE than the other.
Its almost like chalk and cheese, if you see what i mean.

[iamthereddragon]

I'm strictly top. I'm a little scared about being a bottom....not sure why...pain maybe....overly-scared about HIV, etc.... being the receiver is at higher risk....although I must say, I think about being topped all the time.

[ila]

Originally Posted by iamthereddragon

I'm strictly top. I'm a little scared about being a bottom....not sure why...pain maybe....overly-scared about HIV, etc.... being the receiver is at higher risk....although I must say, I think about being topped all the time.

It doesn't matter if you're giving or receiving. It's still possible to get an STI. That's why it's a good idea to use a condom. Barebacking is just a fantasy of mine.

[BlueRaven88]

Originally Posted by tlover

I cant belive so many have voted both equally.
Are you really thinking about this guys, i mean to be fucked in the ass and to fuck someone in the ass are totally different sensations, surely you would then desire one MORE than the other.
Its almost like chalk and cheese, if you see what i mean.

Well most of the people would probably have said 'Both' even though they have only fantasized about rectal penetration, whereas a few of us (including myself) have actually experimented with it with fingers/toys etc and have found we like it. As for wanting one more than the other, I can't speak for everyone who voted on it, but for me personally I do want both equally. To fuck a ladyboy in the ass and cum inside her, then she gets up and returns the favour to me while cum is oozing out her hole is a huge fantasy of mine, but you will find that any ladyboy who is a versatile (likes to fuck and be fucked) will be happy to oblige you to this

[tlover]

I think the word PREFER is what a lot of people are missing.
I think most of us would like both, i certainly would but I'm almost certainly going to PREFER one thing more that the other, like most things in life.
Ive never actually had a cock up my ass but ive experimented with toys as well and liked it.
Take girls for instance, Ive had my cock in a couple of girls arses (though not very far up) and ive liked it but i PREFER a pussy to an ass hole, it just feels softer and wetter and nicer to me.
So when i come to actually having a cock in my ass and putting a cock in someones ass i really belive i would PREFFER one more that the other.
Mabey i will like to be the one who dose the penetrating, i dont think so but I'm not sure until i try it.
Anyway what I'm trying to say is yes i would LIKE both please but i will almost certainly would PREFER one more that the other.
Ive waffled on a bit about prefer, sorry

[ila]

Originally Posted by tlover

I think the word PREFER is what a lot of people are missing.
I think most of us would like both, i certainly would but I'm almost certainly going to PREFER one thing more that the other:

You're right tlover, the keyword here is prefer. As I said in my initial post I like both, but I would prefer to be a bottom more often that the top. So although I really want to fuck my partner and have her suck my cock, I want her cock fucking my ass and my mouth more often and for longer than I fuck her.

[tlover]

Originally Posted by ila

You're right tlover, the keyword here is prefer. As I said in my initial post I like both, but I would prefer to be a bottom more often that the top. So although I really want to fuck my partner and have her suck my cock, I want her cock fucking my ass and my mouth more often and for longer than I fuck her.

That's just the way i feel.
thank god i got the prefer thing right or i would have looked a right plonker:D