Do you remember your first t-girl pic?

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Originally Posted by peanut

That's the one. I first saw it about 25 years ago and was very intrigued. I'm not attracted to men in the least, but when I see a hot woman I think, "if she had a big cock, she'd be perfect". Since coming here I see I'm not alone. I'm a married man and could never let my wife know about this obsession. I love her and get turned on very easily by her even after nearly 40 years of marriage. Oh well, I've rambled on enough. Back to the porn.

Of course, I can't possibly know the details of the relationship with your wife, but given that you "love her and get turned on very easily by her even after nearly 40 years of marriage," it sounds as if you have a relationship that perhaps could weather the offer of buying her a strap-on.