Telling your partner of your love for shemales

[ila]

She's not my partner yet, but my lady knows of my love for transgender women. She wholeheartedly approves because she is a beautiful sweet transgender lady.

[Jayshawn!]

Dont do it unless you have to i wouldnt reccomend it

[O'Sully TS Hopeful]

Originally Posted by ila

She's not my partner yet, but my lady knows of my love for transgender women. She wholeheartedly approves because she is a beautiful sweet transgender lady.

And I'm so happy to be the lucky lady. In fact, I'm thankful for everyday I think about you. And I obviously more than approve.

[shadows]

Originally Posted by O'Sully TS Hopeful

And I'm so happy to be the lucky lady. In fact, I'm thankful for everyday I think about you. And I obviously more than approve.

I sincerely wish the both of you lots of happiness.

[ila]

Originally Posted by O'Sully TS Hopeful

And I'm so happy to be the lucky lady. In fact, I'm thankful for everyday I think about you. And I obviously more than approve.

And I'm so thankful for you.

[smc]

Originally Posted by ila

And I'm so thankful for you.

Isn't this where someone's supposed to say "get a room, already!"

[O'Sully TS Hopeful]

Originally Posted by smc

Isn't this where someone's supposed to say "get a room, already!"

Sorry you're so jealous SMC.

[smc]

Originally Posted by smc

Isn't this where someone's supposed to say "get a room, already!"

Originally Posted by O'Sully TS Hopeful

Sorry you're so jealous SMC.

No apology necessary. I'm not jealous, but happy for whatever is going on.

[randolph]

Originally Posted by smc

No apology necessary. I'm not jealous, but happy for whatever is going on.

Hummm, I wonder where Ila is?

Originally Posted by ila

She's not my partner yet, but my lady knows of my love for transgender women. She wholeheartedly approves because she is a beautiful sweet transgender lady.

I'm very happy for you my friend!

[ila]

Originally Posted by aw9725

I'm very happy for you my friend!

Thankyou. I am very happy and very thankful to have met such a sweet wonderful lady.

[valentinetabitha]

This is something I live in fear of (my wife finding out). Before we were married I told her I was bisexual, but it was something she blocked out. Recently I've reminded her and its something that she doesn't like but has apparently accepted. I worry that finding out that I'm a casual crossdresser and that the only dicks I look at come paired with at least an attempt at looking (socially) standardly female would send her over the edge.

Reminding her that I'm bi has been exceptionally freeing, but I worry it will make me too bold. I could push too soon and tell her that every once in a while I like to wear her panties when she's not home. I'm thinking that's not such a good idea.

[franalexes]

If that is your feeling, you are probably right.

I see two issues emerging in this thread. One pertains to the original question. The other has to do with crossdressing and related behavior. If you fall into the second category, I suggest you find a way to share your interest with your partner. Eventually she will find out. Especially if you are wearing her stuff. Maybe it will turn out to be something the two of you can share--many couples do--and if not you will know that you need to find someone else to share your desires. If your crossdressing is indicative of something deeper? then you need to explore that further and be true to who you are. Remember you are among friends here!

As for the original topic of this thread. It really depends on you. Are you happy with your current partner? Do you really love this person? Are you happy with your life? Are you sincere about wanting a relationship with a transwoman? Do you actually know any transwomen?

It is generally NOT a good idea to tell your partner something that makes them feel less desirable to you: ?You know, honey, that Kelly Shore is really hot?? Unless of course you want to sleep on the couch. Or worse! To me this would essentially be the same as telling your partner you are having an affair or are gay. And do you want her to know that you spend all your time on the computer looking at porn?

Some of you have suggested ?threesomes.? Congratulations if you are in a relationship that is that open--you have my admiration and respect. If that is the case then where is the problem with telling your partner? Unless your relationship is not really that ?open.?

Some of you have expressed the desire to be penetrated anally by a woman. There is such a thing called a ?strap on.? Maybe your wife or GF can be talked into using one on you (sorry, you?re on your own here).

Finally, many of you keep insisting that those of us who like transwomen are really ?gay.? My own feelings about this are well documented elsewhere on this forum but let?s consider it. I suspect some of us are. Or bi. That?s OK. There is nothing wrong with being gay. Suppose you are? Then you most likely aren?t going to be happy in your current heterosexual relationship and you are already having problems. My advice is to end it and find the person right for you.

[franalexes]

Originally Posted by ila

Thankyou. I am very happy and very thankful to have met such a sweet wonderful lady.

Some get to play backstop,
others get to be homeplate.