being together without losing her

Sounds like you have a met a wonderful lady and you two like each other and you?re letting things proceed naturally. Obviously she has told you she is transsexual and knows you are OK with her. Also you mention that you have kissed and ?made out.? I wouldn?t hurry or force the issue of sex--not that I am any ?expert? or anything it?s just that what is ?right? differs from couple to couple and when you two are ready it will happen.

Best wishes to you and your friend!