Shemales & Marriage

[michael39]

I'm married as well. Have fantasized about Trans Girls for years. I'm coming to a point in my life that I feel I need to try being with a TG just to find out if it's more than just a fantasy. My marriage has been bad for many years. No sex, angry at each other all of the time. We're together for our daughter at the moment, but neither of us is sure that's a good reason to be together.

Good luck to you. None of these choices are easy. I hope you make the one that's right for you.

[Daveybouy69]

From my own experience Michael I am very sympathetic. It worked out for me but that was just my experience.

I know that a few people have given good advice about being open with your wife but it sounds like discussing this with her would be the first step on the road to seperating. This may not be a bad thing, I do know from my parents splitting up when I was a kid that children can sense when their parents are unhappy. I could be friends with both my parents when they seperated and they were much happier.

Reading the above it is a bit of a collection of random thoughts. I think the best advice I can give is look forward one month, two months, five years etc and imagine what life would be like for yourself and your family if everything continues the way it is now.

Whatever you decide to do good luck.

[smc]

Originally Posted by michael39

We're together for our daughter at the moment, but neither of us is sure that's a good reason to be together.

Originally Posted by Daveybouy69

I do know from my parents splitting up when I was a kid that children can sense when their parents are unhappy. I could be friends with both my parents when they seperated and they were much happier

Of course, everyone's circumstances are their own, so generalizations must be taken with a grain of salt. But when my parents divorced when I was 12 years old, I felt a tremendous burden lift off of me. After all, they had stayed together for me and my younger sister, which was obvious to me, and all that time I had to work hard not to tell them to split up and make our lives less miserable.

[Daveybouy69]

well unfortunately myself and the wife have gone separate ways - actually religion that did us in in the end...

Since then however I have been bouncing up and down on a couple of really nice shecocks and my ass is feeling very happy right now, just wish Melbourne had a better scene.

How's Hong Kong if I get a transfer up there?