Does liking shemales make you gay?

[vampi]

I've read in some sexologist website (from Spain) a story from a man who was a shemale fan, that slept with a real men. He said could enjoy the anal sex only and felt great repulsion when he kissed and huged with him. So I think many men who like cocks, don't like men and they have the sensation of having sex with a woman when they're with shemale (they have soft skin, tits, or maybe the smell). Just in this case she has a cock to penetrate or be sucked isn't?

Maybe you know this site about real girls with plastic prosthesis of penis (huge) and cuming a lot of false semen (and when I mean a lot, it's really a lot)
I don't know if I can say the name of the site entire

at first I thought it was bullshit because I like watching porn with girls (between girl and boy or between girls) and I like shemale porn (maybe most between shemales or between shemale and man)
I said to me, it was stupid to watch action with false penis
and in fact it's not so bad

maybe because girls are pretty and act like non professionnal, just as they find this fun
and they do a lot of rubbing, snoodling, sword fight in these videos
but because 2 fakes plastic cocks, the sword fight isn't exciting ?
in fact, I find it really really exciting
I know they are both girls and we can see her pussies (nice little pussies by the way), watching just the enormous cock doesn't excite me
but when these 2 massive cock touch each other and the girls smile (acting as if they had pleasure), god I've a hard on !

(I precise that I've never been excited watching manga with shemales or hermaphrodites)

curious

to be closer to the discussion I would say
that I love girls, and I'm attracted to shemales

I'm probably curious about bisexuality (I have a big fantasay about "cock to cock"), but even if I find some men nice, in life I'm not attracted to them

I have feelings for girls, can be in love for girls
(can I be in love with a tgirl ? I don't really know, maybe because I consider them more like girls than boys)

would I prefer a transsexual operated or no operated ?
for my fantasy, it has no doubt, I would prefer with her cock

for a relationship with love, in real world ?
even if I lost the pleasure of sex with her cock, I think for my partner happiness, it's better that she has been operated to complete the transformation she always desired

[smc]

Originally Posted by Pentothal

Maybe you know this site about real girls with plastic prosthesis of penis (huge) and cuming a lot of false semen (and when I mean a lot, it's really a lot)
I don't know if I can say the name of the site entire

It is absolutely permissible to mention the name of the site. I assume you are referring to futanaria.com

Thanks for sharing your views of your own attractions. It is posts of this sort that really add to the great discussions that we often have here on the Forum.

Originally Posted by Pentothal

would I prefer a transsexual operated or no operated ?
for my fantasy, it has no doubt, I would prefer with her cock

for a relationship with love, in real world ?
even if I lost the pleasure of sex with her cock, I think for my partner happiness, it's better that she has been operated to complete the transformation she always desired

Your perspective is both respectful and loving ... a very nice combination. I agree with you wholeheartedly.

You have probably read my other postings so you know it doesn’t matter to me if you consider yourself gay or straight. But speaking totally for myself, I am attracted to beautiful women. I was married to a beautiful woman and have always dated attractive women. Not men. Never have, and at 39, probably never will. Just to add something to this discussion I thought I’d post a few pics for you to consider. What has intrigued me is how this discussion keeps coming (no pun intended) back to “the cock” rather than the entire person.

The first two are Foxy Angel (one of my all-time favorites) and Mallory from “Mallory’s Feet” (to me a relative newcomer--and one of the cutest and sexiest girls I’ve ever seen). You can’t “see anything” in either picture--both are very beautiful and extremely feminine--most “straight” men would likely be attracted to either one of them. Don’t you think? I know I am!

Now consider the other two pictures. The first is Bev Francis, a champion bodybuilder. She is also the first woman to officially bench press over 300 lbs. When I was a teenager I followed her like I did “Arnold” and others. Anyway, I remember before I could do “300” myself, thinking “How can a girl do this”?

The last picture is of course Buck Angel, a well known transman and model. He also obviously works out and has a nice physique. I have read several interviews with him and he seems pretty cool.

Both Bev and Buck have vaginas yet I can say with certainty that I am not sexually attracted to either one--although I like and admire both of them. My question for those who keep insisting that we are all closeted gays is: Why is someone "gay" for liking cute, blond, Mallory (or Kelly Shore for instance)? Is it because she has a “cock”? Then is someone who likes muscular, shaven head, Buck, considered “straight” only because he has a “pussy”? Doesn’t make sense…

My own answer is that human sexuality is much too complex to be categorized and actually tends to fall on a continuum. Perhaps we are predominately gay or straight, but in reality, a little of both. Kinsey, I believe first proposed this idea. The following is taken from the American Psychological Association:

“Sexual orientation is an enduring emotional, romantic, sexual, or affectional attraction toward others. It is easily distinguished from other components of sexuality including biological sex, gender identity (the psychological sense of being male or female), and the social gender role (adherence to cultural norms for feminine and masculine behavior). Sexual orientation exists along a continuum that ranges from exclusive heterosexuality to exclusive homosexuality and includes various forms of bisexuality.”

I think that applies to most of us. LOL! And I think that most importantly we should learn to accept and celebrate who we are. As I’ve said in other posts, “It’s all good”!

Dr. A

[cyba]

What has intrigued me is how this discussion keeps coming (no pun intended) back to ?the cock? rather than the entire person.

Of course. That's what LBs have (and fems don't.) Otherwise, why would
you bother with an LB?
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Which isn't to say that they don't have, in addition, attractive 'femininity.'