Does liking shemales make you gay?

If anyone cares to they can read my other posts on this topic. There seems to be a very diverse range of responses and yes, it does seem like at times, some here are seeking to “rationalize” their desires. I can only speak for myself on this issue but I have never been attracted to men and have only had sex with cis women. I find many transsexual models very attractive and have no problem imagining myself in a relationship with a transwomen someday. I don’t want to disappoint some of you but I really am attracted to the “whole person” and not simply “the cock.” That said, I also find nothing wrong with “being gay” and if that is what it makes me--so be it. Although I don’t believe most gay men would be attracted to someone like Kelly Shore or Camilla Saenz or Victoria Holyns for example. As for the external sex organs involved… I do believe that it is all (for me at least) “in context.” When I see gay porn, I can’t imagine myself fucking or sucking any of the guys in the scene. I can appreciate a handsome or well built man but they just don’t “do it” for me. Sorry! I have seen pictures of Camilla “post op” and she is equally beautiful and sexy with a penis or vagina. It is the “absolutely totally drop-dead gorgeous tall long legged blonde goddess” that I am attracted to. And don’t even get me started on Kelly!

Anyway, this topic is obviously important for many and I myself have wondered the same thing as many of you. Personally, you shouldn’t worry if you are “gay” or “straight” or “bi” or whatever. Someone else here said that by society’s logic we would all be considered “gay.” Well I believe that that “logic” to be faulty--the issues involved are way too complex. But I understand it. I have developed my own plan for “coming out” if you will and have gradually begun to make progress. Since attending our local “Day of Remembrance” last November, I have made friends with several transwomen (and transmen) in our community. I shared my interest with two very good friends over the holidays and my colleagues (I’m a university professor) know I have supported gay rights for many years.

That’s my story. Again. To sum it up, I believe each one of us is unique and that’s why labeling is silly.

Dr. A

[cyba]

all of you "t-girl lovers" are a bit gay in my opinion.

And how about you. GRH. I see you're a 'senior LB lover.'
There's still the distinction, at least for me, between those
males who genuinely would never have a sexual relationship
with a male and, especially, have no preference for that..
and are not inclined to touch guy's cocks, and who generally
prefer females, but, would play with an LB.
Me.
That 'little bit of dick' is a puzzle.
I take it, for you, the gold standard is guys, perhaps the vast
majority, who'd never touch a cock, period.
We can say they're 'straight'/hetero.
Everything else (all other situations involving cock) is/are 'gay'?

Someone gave me "rep" for my "Taracuda" posting of Tara Emory. Thanks!

I think the pic of her below is one of the sexiest photos I've ever seen--EVER!

Does being aroused by Tara make me "gay"? I mean, she's got a "cock"! OMG!!! You know, I could care less whether it "makes me gay" or not. But there is an important fact here that many of you who are wondering "if you are gay" are leaving out--transwomen are women.

We are not talking about male "crossdressers" or "drag queens." Although that's OK too. The women I am attracted to are women--period. To see them any other way would be an insult. That applies equally to Kelly Shore as it does to my new friends from the Day of Remembrance or any transwomen on this forum.

Something I wanted to add to my earlier post--I am probably "older" than most of you (late 30's) and discovered this "interest" much later in life. I was already comfortable with my sexuality and had been married for a long time. Even so, I went through the same questioning that many of you posting here are going through. One thing I have learned is that there are many "variations" on what each of us likes. My wish for you is that you will learn to accept who you are. Asking questions is part of learning. I also hope we can all accept each other as we are without "labels"--as I like to say "It's all good!"

Dr. A

[smc]

Originally Posted by aw9725

Someone gave me "rep" for my "Taracuda" posting of Tara Emory. Thanks!

I think the pic of her below is one of the sexiest photos I've ever seen--EVER!

I have nothing to add beyond my earlier post on the specific topic of this thread, at least at the moment. But I do want to take this opportunity to endorse what Dr. A writes about the Tara Emory photo. The entire set from which that photo comes may be the sexiest ever.

[Kylieam1]

I myself am a gay male but i also love and have been with several shemales