Does liking shemales make you gay?

Trans women are women. How can you possibly be “gay” for being attracted to them? If you don’t “get” this, you should read some of the biographies of the models you like. Or some of the postings on this forum. Or look up “gender identity” on the Internet.

I don’t know why this is so hard to understand. Also the “gay/straight” issue shouldn’t matter either--if you are attracted to someone, does it really matter what’s “down there”? However, I understand what many of you are going through because I questioned it myself--was I suddenly “gay”? After a great deal of consideration and reading other people’s posts on forums like this, I concluded that I wasn’t. But if I had decided that I was gay, I would still be “OK” with myself. So, much of it comes back to how you view yourself and who you are attracted to. If you like someone who has a hard, muscular body, or a hairy chest, and they must have a cock, then yes maybe you are gay. If you like all types, and have had sex with both men and women, then you are most likely bi. For myself, I like a very feminine face and body--most female bodybuilders and trans men do not “do it” for me.

Everyone on this forum knows that I would die for Kelly Shore. Also, a few months ago, I listed about 20-30 well known “tgirls” that I really like. And many of you know I was a judge for the 2009 “Tranny Awards.” Just for fun I thought I’d post some pics of a few of my favorite cis women. Don’t think they need any introduction! I would include a picture of my “ex” but I don’t need any legal problems…

Questions for the guys: Would you suddenly be “gay” if you found out any of the women below had a penis? How would you feel if you met someone you really were attracted to and discovered her “secret”--would you stop liking her--or would you be OK with it? How would you make love to her if you have only been with cis women? These are essentially the questions I asked myself when I first discovered I liked “tgirls.” Kate Walsh is a very special case as she did in fact play a trans woman on CSI. I wrote about that experience in another post.

[The Conquistador]

Originally Posted by aw9725

Trans women are women. How can you possibly be “gay” for being attracted to them? If you don’t “get” this, you should read some of the biographies of the models you like. Or some of the postings on this forum. Or look up “gender identity” on the Internet.

I don’t know why this is so hard to understand. Also the “gay/straight” issue shouldn’t matter either--if you are attracted to someone, does it really matter what’s “down there”? However, I understand what many of you are going through because I questioned it myself--was I suddenly “gay”? After a great deal of consideration and reading other people’s posts on forums like this, I concluded that I wasn’t. But if I had decided that I was gay, I would still be “OK” with myself. So, much of it comes back to how you view yourself and who you are attracted to.

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Questions for the guys: Would you suddenly be “gay” if you found out any of the women below had a penis? How would you feel if you met someone you really were attracted to and discovered her “secret”--would you stop liking her--or would you be OK with it? How would you make love to her if you have only been with cis women? These are essentially the questions I asked myself when I first discovered I liked “tgirls.” Kate Walsh is a very special case as she did in fact play a trans woman on CSI. I wrote about that experience in another post.

Nice post. Worrying about whether you are gay or not seems rather trivial and it only seems like a gimmick by others to make themselves important somehow; as if your purported "gayness" somehow directly affects them in a negative manner.

I think Kate Beckinsale and Jennifer Aniston would look awesome with some "extra" between their legs.

Originally Posted by TheAngryPostman

Nice post. Worrying about whether you are gay or not seems rather trivial and it only seems like a gimmick by others to make themselves important somehow; as if your purported "gayness" somehow directly affects them in a negative manner.

Thanks, AngryPostman. I hope that the people posting on here and asking questions about whether or not they are gay learn to accept themselves just the way they are. It's all good!

Maybe one day society will drop this silly idea that we must "label" or "categorize" everything--the real world is much too complex for that...

I meant to include a link to my earlier post where I explain how Kate Walsh is really to blame for all of this... and also how I first came to be such a big fan of Miss Kelly Shore!

http://forum.transladyboy.com/showpo...4&postcount=57

I totally understand what many of you are going through--may you each one day come to a better understanding and acceptance of your own sexuality.

[muverick]

Hey everyone, I was about to ask the question of if it's gay or not to be aroused by ts girls.
Not for the sake of putting myself in a category, just for curiosity, to see what the general opinion is.

I've got a girlfriend (who sometimes puts on a strap-on during sex ), I am not attracted to men in anyway
I just normally assumed I'd be kind of "bi" due to the whole cock attraction of ts girls? Maybe semi-bi-sexual?