anal penetration yourself or having someone else do it?

[Kakariko]

Originally Posted by Imconfused

When I bring the subject up he usually denies anything.
When the times we do have sex and I am going down on him. Just to see what he will do I put my hand around his ass. Most of the time he moves his ass to where my hand would be at his crack. Is he trying to tell me he wants that?
Why can't he just come out and say it if he does? If I am willing to do it, then he should just be honest right?
I know I am only going to get guesses, but talking to other people who like what he likes well, it does help.
I do know an ass doesn't stretch out on its own though, so something is going in and out of it.....

I think sometimes people don't want to talk about what they want, as it can be awkward or embarrassing. He may find it easier to just move himself towards you and hope you take the hint and go further, that way he doesn't have to ask outright. If you do something he doesn't want or like, he'll either pull away or let you know that he doesn't want it.

As for the other part, it would probably be rather embarrassing for him to talk about. My guess is that nothing too serious is going on. I wouldn't worry too much about it. That's just me though, I don't know either of you in real life, so this is just guess-work. Good luck though!

[Be_my_nude]

Try massaging his lower back just above the cleft, then circle round, using scented lube-oil to his perineum ( the ridge between his balls and his arsehole ). Caress this up and down lightly, then spiral slowly in towards and round his arsehole. DO NOT HURRY. Let him suck one of your forefingers as you do so. The press the knuckle of your bent thumb into the hollow of his back-passage. Do it SOFTLY but in a slow Regular Rhythm. If you combine this with pressure on his Perineum with the fingers of your free hand, he will beg for more. No words are needed to get him going this way ! His body movements will tell you how much further he wants you to go ! This method has worked well for me on a number of occasions, BUT Remember while he may enjoy all of this, it may not mean he wants finger penetration. A lot of men enjoy the sensation of pressure against the Ring-muscle, but only that.

It might be worth your trying to talk him into giving you exactly that sort of massage, by telling him that you will demonstrate on him. 20 cnets to a dollar he will want to go on to fuck your arsehole, which will entitle you ( well, sort of ) to do the same sort of thing to him later !

Have fun