How "SECRET" is your love of shemales.

[hankhavelock]

From the minute I had my first relationship with a transsexual I was totally open about it. It got me some curious questions from time to time but I've basicly only been met with a positive attitude from friends and family.

I'm proud of my girl friend - she's beautiful and sweet - and showing up with her in hand in hand in public is a treat :-) I'm fairly handsome, so surely we get some looks, but that's only amusing. I'd say it's cool :-)

[yobydal]

3. SOME KNOW. One or two close friends/family know but not many, i keep it fairly quiet, i don't shout about it.

[Distance]

Noone knows but me.

[EbonyTSLover]

SOME KNOW. One or two close friends know but not many, i keep it fairly quiet, i don't shout about it.

[floydthebarber]

I think it would hurt my wife to know I look at TS Girls. The whole "what's wrong with me?" thing. Which, to be honest, I would understand. As I said before, I'm new to my sexual response to shemales, so I'm figuring it out myself. But for now, it's way too new to share.

[cockntits]

woe is me very secret

[tlover]

Originally Posted by floydthebarber

I think it would hurt my wife to know I look at TS Girls. The whole "what's wrong with me?" thing. Which, to be honest, I would understand. As I said before, I'm new to my sexual response to shemales, so I'm figuring it out myself. But for now, it's way too new to share.

Iam into it more and more now, and i think this happens to all of us tlovers, you will probably find this out, but 3 years on its still a big secret for me.
Like you i think my girlfrend would be very disturbed by it and i would hate to upset her.
Its a difficult dilemma.

[padeligne]

everyone that knows me, also knows that i fall for shemales. i am not ashamed of it, on the contrary.

[danaik42]

Originally Posted by yobydal

3. SOME KNOW. One or two close friends/family know but not many, i keep it fairly quiet, i don't shout about it.

no one knows bt i always go to gay bars with my brother and his girl friend and if someone shows intrest in me i do talk to them but i can not live with them coz my brother is there.i think the main problem for is that my parents are catholic and black at the same time.i was also caught cross dressing and she beat me up

[Shemlover]

It's very secret, only I know so far. And at the moment I plan on keeping it that way. I don't think there's anything wrong with liking shemales, but right now I don't see why anyone else needs to know about my sexual fantasies. I have a very wide sexuality anyway, there are so many things that turn me on. I don't think any of my friends/family really want to know about all of that.

[mobiryder]

mmm well i own a tranny blog... and all my friends know about it... and i post true, accurate stories... so everyone knows about it, EXCEPT my family (thank god my mom would have a heart attack)

[Imconfused]

Ok so I have a question...as some of you know. I found out my boyfriend likes shemales. I told him I am here if he ever wants to talk and I also told him i'll indulge in his fantasies if he wants...and that I accept him 100%
So with all that..why still deny that you like shemales? Really what could he be afraid of?

[2WayStreet]

Have talked to a few close friends(Straight guys) about LBs, and all seem bewildered as they say a girl is better.

[lpegna]

Originally Posted by Imconfused

Ok so I have a question...as some of you know. I found out my boyfriend likes shemales. I told him I am here if he ever wants to talk and I also told him i'll indulge in his fantasies if he wants...and that I accept him 100%
So with all that..why still deny that you like shemales? Really what could he be afraid of?

Hi. Well... This is kinda hard to explain, at least for me right now. But I'll try to make myself clear. If my wife would discover I like to watch shemales, ladyboys, etc. I'd panic myself! Because we always think our woman is going to leave us or something like that if she knows.

We always try to deny because we are not ready to face up the consecuences of the thoughts we have. Lets say, if you tell me you accept me _even_ with my special hobby, anyway I'd try to fix things saying I don't like and that was only a search that went wrong or something. I'm not really ready to handle that. I think I need to be a little bit more mature to accept that my wife is _accepting_ ME, the whole _me_.

Don't know. I'd last for a while before trying to talk to my wife and accept I like to watch, but I really enjoy making love to her.

How do you feel as his woman? You accept him AS IS, but are you afraid him to prefer eventually a shemale? How do you see his behaviour? I see a lot of shemale stuff, but anyway I am completely fullfilled with the relationship with my wife.

This is a kind of hobby. I'd like to have contact with a ladyboy, because I like that they are very femenine, but they have a penis between their legs, but sometimes I feel strange, because I like my wife a lot.

It is just this idea of having a kind of "dual body". It's facinating.

I hope you understand a little bit more my point of view.

Best wishes for you.