I'm dating a transgendered girl (sex question)

[Bionca]

The answers from the gals have been exactly right, and worth taking to heart. All relationships are based on communication, and talking about sex in important.

Alternately, you can simply "listen" to her body language during sex. A good lover tries to understand what their partner is liking or not liking during the acts. The clues may be subtle, but they will be there.

For trans women sex can be charged issue, so assuring her that you care and only want to make her as happy as she makes you will likely put her at ease enough that the two of you can have good sex and a healthy relationship.