I'm dating a transgendered girl (sex question)

[benwest]

I know that's probably the best thing to do but I'm not sure how to put it without making her feel like I'm afraid to have sex with her. I know she's very concerned that I might be turned off by her penis although I have tried to assure her that won't happen.

How are most transgendered women? Do they like their partners to touch their penis or to ignore it? Or is it really an individual preference? I know every guy can't get enough of their lovers playing with it.