I'm dating a transgendered girl (sex question)

[GroobyKrissy]

I know it may be awkward but have you just asked her what her preference is? That may be a good place to start...

[transjen]

Every Tgirl is differnt, I never liked having my penis touched and played with and many a time i left my panties on. But there are Tgirls out there who like having there penis touched and played with so you need to ask her

Jerseygirl Jen

[benwest]

Jen, you know how guys are when it comes to asking for directions . She's got a great ass, so I'm really hoping she won't want to keep her panties on.

On more thing, I always assumed every trans woman would be into anal. Would this be incorrect?

[GroobyKrissy]

Originally Posted by benwest

On more thing, I always assumed every trans woman would be into anal. Would this be incorrect?

I would say, Yes, incorrect. Like everyone else is saying, sex is a very personal thing. What one person loves will drive someone else nuts (and not in a good way). Best to sit down, pop open a nice bottle of wine, and discuss...

Good luck!

[JodieTs]

Talk about it.
My boyfriend did openly, gently asking about my likes & dislikes.

I'm an escort but a lot of what I do,
I'm not into.
My man wants to push my right buttons;
asking what these are, is a good starting place.

Lots of us love our cocks being played with, & lots hate that...
Ask, ask, ask.

[sphynx52]

but i have recently become very atracted to them.....

what do I do?

you seem so happy having a relationship with her....

anyone got advice or wanna chat?

[Bionca]

The answers from the gals have been exactly right, and worth taking to heart. All relationships are based on communication, and talking about sex in important.

Alternately, you can simply "listen" to her body language during sex. A good lover tries to understand what their partner is liking or not liking during the acts. The clues may be subtle, but they will be there.

For trans women sex can be charged issue, so assuring her that you care and only want to make her as happy as she makes you will likely put her at ease enough that the two of you can have good sex and a healthy relationship.

[franalexes]

Originally Posted by benwest

Jen, you know how guys are when it comes to asking for directions . She's got a great ass, so I'm really hoping she won't want to keep her panties on.

On more thing, I always assumed every trans woman would be into anal. Would this be incorrect?

She seems to be taking the lead. And you seem to be okay with that. So let it go.:D

A lasting relationship will be built on all the other things you do together.
So don't fuck it up. Enjoy what the two of you enjoy. Pay close attention. She won't let you get "out of bounds".
and ya know? you can always ask. ( I know, that's not a guy thing.)

as for anal, yes, you are wrong. she'll tell you whatever.

[benwest]

I know that's probably the best thing to do but I'm not sure how to put it without making her feel like I'm afraid to have sex with her. I know she's very concerned that I might be turned off by her penis although I have tried to assure her that won't happen.

How are most transgendered women? Do they like their partners to touch their penis or to ignore it? Or is it really an individual preference? I know every guy can't get enough of their lovers playing with it.

[Brock Samson]

You need to put your fears aside. You have to communicate with her what she likes and dislikes. Communication is critical in any relationship. Have a few drinks one night, get loosened up, and talk with her about what she wants.

[EdwardSinclair]

Just know you are a lucky guy, many would like to be in your position!
I know I would... having said that, I give for what people have already said in the previous posts.

The best way to go is to be open about your feelings. Every relationship is different, people have different preferences, you won't find your answer in this thread, when the person that holds the answers is the one next to you... (Lucky !!)