My Story

[british_boy]

Thank you Bionca and BMN, you're very sweet and encouraging. I was nervous about posying this story in the first instance, because a majority of people here are just looking for thrills - interesting that both replies were from girls! But anyway, I'm glad I showed the non-porno, down to earth side of things. It still amazes me that (judging by some of the polls here) some people here still see trans-girls as somehow second class - a walk on the wild side before they run back to what they consider to be "real girls". Perhaps I can help to change one or two guys' perspective on this...

[novicetgirllover]

I really envy you, did you like tgirls before you met her? Thing is I wont find the girl of my dreams without looking, but you never find love when you're looking for it. So it looks like i'm f**ked.

[EdwardSinclair]

Hi british_boy, firstly I want to thank you for sharing this amazing story, and compliment you on your bravery! It's a very nice story indeed, and very well written too! I absolutely adore your writing style, it's full of emotion and there's a true sense of urgency to it that brings the despair and relief you felt so clearly to our minds. Maybe you could write a book from your experiences and resolution? You'd have at least one buyer (ME!!).

I got goosebumps. It is truly inspiring, I'm happy for you, seems you have found true love. I had forgotten how that feels, to risk all, to just let go...

It was incredibly romantic, and I absolutely loved reading your story. Still having a hard time believing this is all real and happened to someone, you were very lucky in taking this risk and being successful. Many aren't so fortunate, and for that I am, perhaps, a little envious of you. I wish you both all the happiness this world can give you, and hope that these events make you never be afraid to pursue your dreams.

Edward.

Originally Posted by british_boy

Thank you Bionca and BMN, you're very sweet and encouraging. I was nervous about posying this story in the first instance, because a majority of people here are just looking for thrills - interesting that both replies were from girls! But anyway, I'm glad I showed the non-porno, down to earth side of things. It still amazes me that (judging by some of the polls here) some people here still see trans-girls as somehow second class - a walk on the wild side before they run back to what they consider to be "real girls". Perhaps I can help to change one or two guys' perspective on this...

Hello

A very good post. I hope your dream comes true in 2010 getting her to the UK. Never mind what other people think or say about it. It's yours and her life. Not theirs. Also think what would have happened if you posted your story on lb69 or asiants or T world from Frankie. Just envy or guys warning you please don't.

Good you showed the non-porno, down to earth side of things. I was in a similar situation two times with Thai ladyboys. Not happy endings but it never left me cynical, sarcastic or angry towards ladyboys. A life time experience. Also I don't see them as "second class". No just like girls with some minor differences on their emotional side. The mistake many of us make is ignoring the male side of transgenders. In a relationship you can't ignore that side.
I can't give you any advice. I ain't no expert. I know the reasons why it went wrong in my cases. Be your own expert, not afraid to make mistakes. Consider yourself lucky right now. Enjoy it and keep your head clear. And don't waste your time on useless discussions am I gay or not.

May 2010 be prosperous to you

All the best

Reefer88

[WudLuv2try]

All I have to say :

[Daveybouy69]

A good tale that really helps me understand where you were coming from when you replied to my thread. The best of luck to both of you and all the happiness in the world!

[youknow87]

Very good and nice story! Well written too!

I just posted my own, which is a little bit comparable to yours.

[ladyboyluv99]

Hi British_Boy

My own story is so much similar to yours, I had to laugh out loud once or twice while reading that. But in the end my eyes were shed with tears.

Yeah arrival in Manila... I had the same problem, but luckily I had contact by cellphone to my girlfriend that I met after about 9 months of regular chat...
I also searched around in the arrival hall, then outside there. After a while I asked someone that I cannot find arrival zone and some guy was showing me the way down the ramp there...
I was so nervous that time, same like you. I had no idea, how people react in the catholic Philippines if a european guy meets his TS girlfriend.

So I walked down the ramp and the mess was unbelievable. Lots of people, lots of noises, everyone wanna sell me his taxi service. Luckily I had her on the phone... So suddenly she was crossing the lane to my side with all the letters on the sidewalk... And I saw her for the first time... First impression was: so pretty but so tiny ( I knew she was a petite one - but she is so petite in real). After the first welcome and say hello, we sat to the taxi and I had her for me the first time. In this moment I really knew, it was the right thing to do - such a funny, pretty, feminine person with that incredible scent (and I was concerned that maybe I won't like her scent ).

I stayed there for 7 weeks, but also the say goodbye on Manila Airport was the hardest moment in my life. We both cried so much.
But we are still together

[GCharles]

Well done thats stepping out of the comfort zone for definite! Glad you got a result out of it