How do you release your sexual desire?

[randolph]

Originally Posted by franalexes

Strange; I don't chat much but I've made a lot of guys bang their cock on the keyboard. They must be having erotic fantasies. What about , I have no idea.

Ahh, Franchesca of Avalon, bless me with your mighty sword and I will be your knight forever.

[EdwardSinclair]

I feel I am in the same boat! I have a long-term gf we have been together around 6 years now!

She gets really agitated when we won't have sex for a long time. We sometimes go a good 3 months without doing it, and she is a very beautiful lady and I do feel attracted to her physically. Although she constantly makes me feel guilty for masturbating when we are not together, especially because she noticed some nude pics on my mobile (not the trans kind though).

Then of course I have had the same problem with other beautiful women too, sex with them doesn't seem quite right, I don't know how to explain except that masturbation seems to feel better is some respects. Either I have been with the wrong women, or maybe it's something psychological.

There was a time I was afraid, I would only be able to get it up to jack off to a trans ladyboy, but I soon found out that isn't true! I'm attracted to women, but I haven't managed to understand what is wrong yet.

It's not like I need viagra, because I can get really hard powerful erections when I'm excited. It's just that if something awkward happens during sex, like she says something ridiculous I immediately lose my erection and it won't come back so soon.

This never happens when I'm jacking off to internet porn! Once I did it for 4 hours straight online, but if I last even more than 30 mins with her she will complain that the reason I last so long to cum inside her is because I don't find her attractive anymore... or that I don't like her, which isn't true , because I love her to bits!

Also I made the mistake of getting one of those FL to help me masturbate, now instead of orgasming in 3 minutes it takes me ages to do it, almost 35 minutes or so, sometimes more... I thought this would be a good thing, only apparently it isn't, because now when we have sex I can't orgasm in time with her.

Maybe I'm really messed up now...

True honest story...

[WudLuv2try]

EdwardSinclair : We are in the same boat...

I see your gf is pretty tough one...

"...but if I last even more than 30 mins with her she will complain that the reason I last so long to cum inside her is because I don't find her attractive anymore..."

Shit like this is exactly why you have hard time having sex with her. Same for me too.

I'll tell you.

I can't be 100% sure, but I swear my wife was feeling for how much cum I injected into her after sex. She's trying to see if there's enough cum to convince her that I haven't had sex with anyone on that day.

And that is such a turn off!! You know what I mean?

It's like this.

When I come home late, after I take my customer to dinner and stuff, or after I take my customer to golf, my wife will seduce me in most obvious way, and have sex with me. (Whether I want to or not.)

And when I cum, she will see if there's enough cum or not. If I had visited sex shop with the customer, then there should be very little cum. If I only had dinner, like I said I did, then there should be more cum.

I mean, I can't say for sure if THAT was what she was doing, but there are some things you can tell...

I don't know what I'm going to acheive by saying all this, and I hate to feel I'm talking crap about my wife, but I don't know....

[EdwardSinclair]

It just sounds to close to home for me, I can't give any advice on it but I can sure relate to it.

My gf will call me randomly from time to time, and if I don't pick up, she starts saying I'm with someone else, and is always suspicious I'm gonna leave her for someone younger... I think that's very similar behaviour to what your wife is doing to you!

Then sometimes she cries me a river, and I just feel powerless, completely and utterly useless! I hate feeling useless... how can I be expected to perform feeling useless??

I talk to her all the time, that I care and love her and reassure her. I mean I do that everyday, and I'm still doing this everyday for the past 2 or so years since all this started!

And I don't mind doing that, except for when I'm accused of something I haven't done or she starts acting weird and freaking out for no reason, then I feel like crap.

Frankly I just want her to be happy, I just wish things could be like they were 3 years ago, it was fantastic. I mean sometimes it still is, but there's a lot of annoying things in between.

It's a little selfish of me, but somehow I find a little comfort in reading about your experiences, because it makes me feel as if I'm not alone out here struggling with this crap. I wish it all works out between you and your wife. If anything I feel better for venting some of this stuff out, hope you do too!!

[WudLuv2try]

EdwardSinclair : "It's a little selfish of me, but somehow I find a little comfort in reading about your experiences, because it makes me feel as if I'm not alone out here struggling with this crap."

Same here man... :D

I've never had sex with anyone after I got married. UNTIL... -___- ,,

But that's another story... for another time......

But I'm telling you. Shit could happen in such a way, that you find yourself in the middle of it, and you don't even know how you got there.

[EdwardSinclair]

Well, I can relate to that too I'm afraid
I have been in this situation once in my life. Although I find myself thinking that, for all the guilt I got from it in the end... that one time is enough for a life time!