How do you release your sexual desire?

[foreskinlvr]

Well, it definitely sounds like your not in the most ideal sexual state of your life.. She shouldn't make you feel bad about masturbating, if you're horny you'll get the urges out one way or another. I'm definitely no therapist, so I definitely don't know everything about relationships, and don't want to give you that impression. All in all, it seems to come down to the fact that you're just not being fulfilled sexually. Sex can get boring in a long term relationship even with oral sex and trying to be spontaneous, let alone the situation you're in. I think the sooner she knows that things need to change sexually between you two the better. For me, if my gf and I don't have sex at least occasionally (once a week or so), the sexual frustration builds up for me and we get irritable with each other. I think if you're wife is willing to hear you out and potentially step out of her comfort zone to make sex more interesting, you'd be on the road to a better sex life. Good luck with everything, I don't envy your position as I think its going to take a bit of work to get things back on track.

[avrilfuck]

Actually, masturbate.
I can´t go no more with shemales....
I miss them

[racquel]

http://www.amazon.com/Hitachi-Wand-V...dp/B001QVY7ZQ/

[Katie Girl]

As I don't have a gf at the moment, I have been visiting Working Girls (Females) as I need female stimulation. I visit 2 WG's on a regular basis and one of them loves me to dress up for her. Last time I visited I wore a pink pin striped matching bra & thong, hold up stockings and 5inch heels. I bought her the same bra & pants set, which she put on, and we decided we were sisters!!
We didn't have sex last time I visited but she gave me the best blow job I have ever had. I spurted my cream into her mouth and she let it dribble over her 32d tits, fucking lovely to watch. She videoed our time together, so I can play it back any time and have a nice wank thinking about it.
I think I need to book in to see her again soon!!
Love Katie Girl xxx

[CuriousGirl]

Being a bisexual female I have a nice menu from which to choose; My BF when I want a nice lollipop to suck or need vaginal or anal intercourse; My bisexual GF; The Asian T-girl I've known for several months now. "She" is cute as a button, lots of fun to just hang out with. She isn't very serviceable so far as intercourse goes since she has a tiny penis and was castrated maybe three years before coming to the USA but we do have a lot of fun in bed.
If there are no "friends" available I can simply masturbate manually; use my assortment of toys; or ride the Sybian I bought a while back while I watch erotic vids.
Since I'm only in my 20's I feel I've experienced a lot more than most women of my age have and that's fine with me.

[franalexes]

Strange; I don't chat much but I've made a lot of guys bang their cock on the keyboard. They must be having erotic fantasies. What about , I have no idea.

[The Conquistador]

Originally Posted by franalexes

I've made a lot of guys bang their cock on the keyboard.

I've only done that once when I stubbed my toe on the desk. I got the "double whammy".

[randolph]

Originally Posted by franalexes

Strange; I don't chat much but I've made a lot of guys bang their cock on the keyboard. They must be having erotic fantasies. What about , I have no idea.

Ahh, Franchesca of Avalon, bless me with your mighty sword and I will be your knight forever.

[EdwardSinclair]

I feel I am in the same boat! I have a long-term gf we have been together around 6 years now!

She gets really agitated when we won't have sex for a long time. We sometimes go a good 3 months without doing it, and she is a very beautiful lady and I do feel attracted to her physically. Although she constantly makes me feel guilty for masturbating when we are not together, especially because she noticed some nude pics on my mobile (not the trans kind though).

Then of course I have had the same problem with other beautiful women too, sex with them doesn't seem quite right, I don't know how to explain except that masturbation seems to feel better is some respects. Either I have been with the wrong women, or maybe it's something psychological.

There was a time I was afraid, I would only be able to get it up to jack off to a trans ladyboy, but I soon found out that isn't true! I'm attracted to women, but I haven't managed to understand what is wrong yet.

It's not like I need viagra, because I can get really hard powerful erections when I'm excited. It's just that if something awkward happens during sex, like she says something ridiculous I immediately lose my erection and it won't come back so soon.

This never happens when I'm jacking off to internet porn! Once I did it for 4 hours straight online, but if I last even more than 30 mins with her she will complain that the reason I last so long to cum inside her is because I don't find her attractive anymore... or that I don't like her, which isn't true , because I love her to bits!

Also I made the mistake of getting one of those FL to help me masturbate, now instead of orgasming in 3 minutes it takes me ages to do it, almost 35 minutes or so, sometimes more... I thought this would be a good thing, only apparently it isn't, because now when we have sex I can't orgasm in time with her.

Maybe I'm really messed up now...

True honest story...