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[Bionca]

I have a new post up that I think most trans women who date guys can relate to. Feel free to comment and stuff

[JonFrum]

A few years ago, I read something online written by a drag queen. She said she only had sex with gay guys, because "straight" guys who made a big deal out of wanting to have sex with her would freak - and sometimes be violent - when/after it actually happened. "Admirers" just can't be trusted, apparently.

Of course, we're talking about a lot of guys here. Big talkers on the internet, but if you put a dick in their faces, they'd panic. It happens with crossdressers all they time. They talk it up big on web sites, but when someone local asks them to hook up they suddenly can't make it. That's the difference between fantasy and reality.

TG people have to live it - rather different from fantasy. Good luck next time.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by JonFrum

A few years ago, I read something online written by a drag queen. She said she only had sex with gay guys, because "straight" guys who made a big deal out of wanting to have sex with her would freak - and sometimes be violent - when/after it actually happened. "Admirers" just can't be trusted, apparently.

Of course, we're talking about a lot of guys here. Big talkers on the internet, but if you put a dick in their faces, they'd panic. It happens with crossdressers all they time. They talk it up big on web sites, but when someone local asks them to hook up they suddenly can't make it. That's the difference between fantasy and reality.

TG people have to live it - rather different from fantasy. Good luck next time.

Yeah, it is a fantasy/reality thing. I wasn't relating a specific new experience, but rather the distillation of many many experiences and stories from a wide variety of friends.

[The Conquistador]

Nice post Ms. B! If people aren't fully comfortable with every aspect transwomen, they have no business "experimenting" or any of that crap. It's such a shame that you are subjected to such things.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by TheAngryPostman

Nice post Ms. B! If people aren't fully comfortable with every aspect transwomen, they have no business "experimenting" or any of that crap. It's such a shame that you are subjected to such things.

I don't think most guys do it intentionally... doesn't change much, except to make it less likely to anticipate.

Ms.B nice post just wanted to add this then there are guys like me out there who truly are very open mined and would love to be with someone like you put it my face and I am yours to do what you want with:D

[Bionca]

I'm a little cranky in this post, but it's new. The final installment of the Grooby Interview. http://tinyurl.com/ylb372b.


You know, you guys are welcome to comment on the blog... I'm sure I do and will make some messed up assumptions about guys and I'm very open to being corrected.