New Blog

[The Conquistador]

Good to know!

[barry]

wow.....very very intimate - i peered into your life for a moment. sorry about "ma & pa" but beings as we are the same age our rents cant be that far apart and mine are oldschool to the core: they will never (nor want to) understand what youve been through. fuck em. fuck the ex too - figuratively not litterally. you dont deserve someone like that. who am i to say what you deserve....i just know a real man would be failthful - rules or not.

and by the way......youre beautiful - in every essence of the word

[johndowe]

Hi there.

I posted a reply to your "worse date ever" but failled to enter a name & email and the post was lost...

Anyway i said that i felt a bit sorry for you and even more for his g/f.

And that i had seen some clueless people in my life but this guy is (way) off the scale.

Also who is dwb?


JohnDowe.

[johndowe]

Hi there.

I read and i would have questions...


JohnDowe.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by johndowe

Hi there.

I read and i would have questions...


JohnDowe.

What questions do you have? I'll be happy to answer

[johndowe]

Originally Posted by Bionca

What questions do you have? I'll be happy to answer

Hi there.

You fell into my trap, mua, ha, ha, ha, ha.

But seriously...

Since you are starting a new blog, why don't you also give it a new purpose and direction in addition to what you were doing before?

Like what?

Well, why don't you call out to others of the tg comunity and try to get them to unite like i stated in my "Abused women..." thread?

And try get them to be involved in the cause, take the problem to them since it IS their problem, if one of us is attacked, we all suffer, do not insite violence but sending letters to the police commisionner about police dis-respecting members of our community, and writing letters to state, and federal officials about the problem and to get them to not only aknoledge the problem but to address it, one letter will be ignored, 100 may raise an eye brow, but 1000 or more will get someone's attention, even if it very little is accomplished, it is a step in the right direction, then it may be followed by more steps, as your blog grows and gains popularity and the unity of the tg comunity reads your new blog, what do you think?

Yeah, i know, it's not guaranteed to happen, and if it does it won't happen over night, but wouldn't it be great if it did?

If you do it, it could happen, but if you don't we both know it won't happen, not from your blog anyway.

But you know that such a voice is needed, you have the blog setup already, you have the will to write it, all you need is to do it and stick to it, for yourself and all the comunity, it won't be easy, but what is in this life? And the hardest things in life are also the most rewarding, so what do you say?

Also, in the relatively short time you have been a member here, i have seen your name and statements quoted by many members, you HAVE gained the respect of most of the members of this site and myself included, you earned that respect by speaking your mind and treating everybody with respect even if you didn't agreed with their posts and opinions, if you do the same in your NEW blog you will do fine, believe me.

JohnDowe.

[Bionca]

Hey,

Actually, I do have a focus for my blog, I'm trying to merge what I see as two very different types of trans-related material. On one hand you have sites like this where guys gather and look at trans women and to varying degrees appreciate trans women (at least sexually). On the other you have very political trans-feminist blogs where issues of dating are not really discussed.

My hope is to blend the two and provide a place where trans women can discuss dating and live as trans women, and guys can learn more what is is to actually BE a trans woman.

I will be blogging on some other sites with a focus on anti-violence. I will also be providing information on my own blog on how counter violence, and why it is so hard to get the authorities to actually respond to issues of anti-trans violence.

Thanks for reading!