Does liking shemales make you gay?

[Adis]

I agree totally with smlover. It depends on what you think makes men or women what they are.
For me, I like their femininity and the cock is just one part of them and not even an essential one.

[shemaluvr]

I agree with wannabecut.
Personally I won't be able to fuck a guy, neither a transvestite.
But I love fucking girls and TS girls.

[johndowe]

Hi there.

Gay men are attracted to men and their penises.

Straight men are attracted to women and their vaginas.

Bi men are attracted to both men and their penises and women and their vaginas.

OK.

Now, men who like shemales like their feminine bodies and their penises.

It is straight in the body part but gayish in the genitalia part, which would make it bi'ish, but not quite.

So none of the labels fit properly, maby we need a new one?

Like quasi-straight or mostly-straight?

Or maby Trisexual.

But not Quartersexual, then you'd do anything with anybody for 25 cents.

JohnDowe.

[sekretter]

Doesn't make you gay, because I love all flavors of tranny as long as they are feminine and beautiful, but I am not attracted to men.

Although no matter how many times you try to explain the attraction to shemales, the stereotype/public-notion is too strong that it's always going to be labeled as gay no matter what.

It doesn't help that a lot of people associate trannies with grotesque looking (purposely unpassable) drag queen performers (who've undergone no hormones or surgery, etc) who identify as gay men (Completely different than a female identifying MtoF)

You can't wait for society to change, just got to deal with it

[happy69]

I am not attracted to men, in fact watching men kiss each other it is still kind of yucky. Swishy guys giggling and singing show tunes is not my thing at all...well, OK, I do like the show tunes. But lots of hair in way too many places, not enough curves...just not appealing.

There is also a mind set of men...gay, straight, or bi. I have met some t-girls that still have this male mind set but for the most part T-girls seem to act more like brash women than gay men and many here in Thailand are not even brash women. I remember a line, "If it looks like a duck, sounds like a duck, walks like a duck...it's a duck." I think this is pretty much accurate for describing T-girls. They look like women, act like women, and apparently feel like women. What are they? They ain't ducks... If this duck analogy is true, it falls in line with how I personally feel about sex with men and sex with women. Men yuck, women please.

I think society in general still wants to see the sexes in black and white, man or woman as was pointed out in an astute earlier post. A huge portion of Society (and religions) still view sex as primarily, if not solely, for procreation...not recreation. T-girl sex is not going anywhere when it comes to making babies (although I do keep trying ). It is strictly recreational sex (of course we know it can also be much more; love affection, commitment, and all the other things that go into making up a human relationship). Society in the West still has big problems with baby making sex between genetic men and genetic women...look at the bizarre aberrations that religion has imposed upon sexual relations now and historically! Sex is important and powerful and, as such, it gets lots of attention from folks that want to mold society...usually repressive attention sadly.

I digress. I actually feel t-girls (the majority anyway) are more women than women. GGs are born as girls and just grow up with all that that entails which makes it easy to take for granted. T-girls have had to work hard and have a strong desire to be women. They are studied in the ways of femininity where GGs just ...are. I personally feel that all this effort to become a woman gives them the right to be women and the right for me to see them as women. There is a MAJOR difference between a fem-boy and some dude in drag...even a gay guy in drag. A ladyboy is a woman in her mind and acquires the trappings (and now body parts ) of a women externally. Does one little Y chromosome make that much difference over choice?

So all that being said, are you gay if you love T-girls? Hell, if I know. I'm pretty sure I'm not, but I'm not dead yet and I really hate to predict what path my life will take.

[timhaas]

Well I think if you're gay, you love men, not ladyboys, isn't? Surely, there might be a part of gay men who also love LBs, but the majority of gays prefer men, not girly boys or shemales, I suppose.
P.S. I tried to vote but couldn't. There's maybe smth wrong with the poll.

[Hedonistman]

This ? cums up often and everywhere,,, but it's kinda silly. Nothing makes us gay or st8, we each ourselves decide.

[jimbo46]

I myself love shebabes especially the ones who are very feminine with big tits big butts and a sexy cock. I am never ever turned on by guys but a shebabe like Vanity or Kimber James drives me wild wanting to fuck them suck them and them fuck and suck me. I also get very excited about all females I love pussy very much also. I really love to watch shebabes really hard fucking a girls pussy. No I dont think it makes you gay at all.

[smc]

Wouldn't it be great if all of these polls and threads about whether you're gay if you like transgurls -- which are most often posted, I think, by people who are worried (for some reason) about being gay -- had this option to vote for:

Who the fuck cares!

[TOMR85]

I am not attracted to men....I am attracted to women and tgirls.....I don't know what the hell that makes me, and I don't care! I know what I like and that is all that matters to me.

[tgirlass]

Well coming from someone who has yet to suck a cock. I think once I suck a S.M's cock and if I really love sucking her cock. I would want to suck cock more and wouldn't really care if it was a shemale or fem boy. I'm not really into guy's but hey if I start loving to suck cock who cares as long as I'm getting my face stuffed with cock. I mean really a cock is a cock NO matter who's legs it's hanging between. So who cares as long as it's pumping cum in your face. Hell after thinking about it I think it may be nice going fishing and sucking my buddies cocks ever hour or so. I may have to start looking for the right fishing buddies after giving this some thought. :-)

So who gives a fuck what someone calls me. I wouldn't care if they were calling me a guy little slut while I was sucking their cock or being fucked in the ass by them. Because it don't MATTER as long as I'm getting mine!

[megalops]

I never really worried about labels and believe we are all capable of loving others, no matter the gender. I've always loved pussy and enjoy being with women. I've had dozens of female sex partners. However, I assumed that I was bi because I am attracted to certain males. Specifically, feminine males. I've only had sex with 2 males in my life (and have not yet experienced the delights of a T-girl). But realize that the 2 guys I had sex with were very feminine, that is they were small and petite, had round hips, walked like a female and kept their skin soft and shaved their legs and pubes. Neither was a TV or wore make-up, they were just very feminine gay men. I have never been attracted to masculine men and, frankly, think its repulsive to even consider having sex with a big muscular hairy guy (no offense meant to anyone).

However it is that we're wired, we pick up on the feminine part, even if who we're attracted to is genetically male, and go with it. I loved having sex with these 2 men, sucking their cocks came naturally, and I have met other fem men and T-girls that I have been attracted to and wanted to have sex with but didn't, for various reasons. Anyway, I seem to be rambling, but my point is that we are all wired in a particular way and its irrelevant if we call ourselves straight, gay or bi. Just go with what feels natural to you, be safe and cause no harm.

[patron]

there almost needs to be a new category to describe guys that like LBs, aside from bi.

[novicetgirllover]

Polysexual.

[WudLuv2try]

I thought about it for a LONG time and I still don't know...

But what I do know is,

Thoughts about sucking shemale's dick makes me horny.

Thoughts about sucking man's dick doesn't.

And then I thought there is no difference between shemale's dick, and my dick. A dick is a dick.

So I thought about sucking man's dick, again, and it started to make me horny a little bit. Actually, the more I think about it, the more I 'get it'.

I want to feel my dick being serviced, to a point where I scream and cum all over the place. I know not many women can do that. My wife? She can't do it even if she tried.

So I have to help myself. I have to masturbate, to thoughts that makes me sexually active. Horny, I mean.

And if there was a guy, who needed his dick to be serviced in a way that he will scream and ejaculate, I'd be happy to help out, and while doing it, get my share of pleasure too.

Is that gay?

I'm leaning towards, YES, that is so fucking gay....

[chester]

I'm anal, married, and faithful. Hot shemales and my imagination is great for jerking off. I dont care what that makes me.

[local]

Does it matter? Be comfortable in who you are. But for those who feel the need for an answer, IMHO the feminine form is not something attractive to someone "gay".

[jimbo46]

Why is this thread still active its ridiculous you can be totally straight and love shebabes or gay and love shebabes why is this such an issue with some ppl. I myself have a beautiful full figured all female girlfriend that I love to death but I also love shebabes. Honestly somebody needs to close this thread down.

I personally dont suck on t-girls and i would never let one bum me, i treat them like women. Get sucked and then fuck them. I think if you like them to dom you and you love sucking then you are gay. If im gay for bumming gorgeous t-girls then so be it

[CCC]

See there are three sexes I can say with confidence that I am Bi-Sexual. I love GG's and TS's but I pass on M4M. Sucking on a man's cock is definately not the same as a TS. You miss the smell, the feel and the sight of a beautiful lady.

[british_boy]

Ask yourself this: Would you rather fuck a macho trans-man with muscles, shaved head, goatee and a pussy, or a beautiful, feminine trans-woman with a penis.

As far as I'm concerned, gayness hasn't got a lot to do with what's between the legs, and I wouldn't be attracted to a G-man or a T-man, nor a masculine woman for that matter.

To quote the film Trainspotting, "[attraction] is all about aesthetics".

[DoryLee]

No. It's idiotic to suggest it, but we live in a black and white society that doesn't show the complexity of life. The replies above me concluded the complexity. Stop living in a black and white universe, start seeing the grey and the complexity, and you'll suddenly come to see a much bigger, fuller, more interesting picture.

-Dory

[Nforc3r]

yh i think it is personally but as you said humans are complex and you cant stick people into strict categories

[m666]

I´m not a taker, and I just like ALL KINDS of girls
I dont consider myself gay, but another might would, whatever. That happened to me before when on a party I said Rob Halford was pretty awesome, damn, I didn´t mean I wanted to get laid with him!

[tbabe]

big no here

[youlikeit]

Personally I dont think that men that like girls are gay. Even if the girls they like happen to be born a male. As long as it is sex between a guy and a girl it is straight sex.

However, I'm sure if you took all the guys here and all the girls here and put us in a nice little christian church, we would all be labled as gay.

Originally Posted by m666

I´m not a taker, and I just like ALL KINDS of girls
I dont consider myself gay, but another might would, whatever. That happened to me before when on a party I said Rob Halford was pretty awesome, damn, I didn´t mean I wanted to get laid with him!

I have posted extensively on this topic as I have come to terms with it myself. No you are not "gay." And yes, Rob Halford is awesome! Priest rule!

[2WayStreet]

Not definately not Gay. Attraction and whatever that follows with members of the same sex can be considered gay, but we are attracted to a third sex, that is not similar to us.

[demon_kiss2]

to quote butter from sp " I guess everyone is a little bi-curious" I love females n shemales the do my nuts in but i don't like guys not into it, i guess u have to look into how u feel, gay guys like guys and not anythong related to females, now if u cross dress but u like girls, is that gay, well is not as you just like to dress up cuase u like it, so if u like shemales are u gay, well i think the answer to that is evey simple ask this question and answer it

do you like females? y/n if u answer no u gay if u say yes then u not
do you like men? y/n if u answer yes u gay if u say no then u are not
do you like shemales? y/n if u answer yes ur nit gay if you said no then u don't know what y missing out on

[WudLuv2try]

I realize that only gays can answer this question......

[The_Void]

Originally Posted by demon_kiss2

do you like females? y/n if u answer no u gay if u say yes then u not
do you like men? y/n if u answer yes u gay if u say no then u are not
do you like shemales? y/n if u answer yes ur nit gay if you said no then u don't know what y missing out on

I would like to point out that this is quite innacurate. I answered "yes" to question two, yet I am not gay.

[bigjoe]

why label yourself? who cares

[Talvenada]

You are who you are, and so what!

Why does it matter?

[jimbo46]

This is so idiotic ppl lets move on

[Lycanthropunk]

I don't like labels, but i would have to say that when it comes to my sexuality i would say i'm "trisexual"- i'll try anything!

Seriously though, i consider myself bisexual. I'm not a 50-50 mix (so few are), but i could never say i'm straight as i love cock too much! I prefer the overall look of a woman- from her face to her shape, smell etc, but i have always preferred cocks to pussy. I love pussy, especially unshaven, but cocks are so much more fun! So a Tgirl is for me, the best of both worlds: the beauty of a woman with the best bit of a man!

As for considering oneself "straight" whilst loving Tgirls... i can understand that to a point. Even the most well endowed of Tgirls is more "female" than the sum of her "male" part as far as attraction goes for admirers, but ask any "regular" straight guy if he'd suck a cock if it was attached to Halle Berry or Beyonce and he'd probably say no!

[nicole_girrl]

Are you gay for liking shemales? The age old question, with a simple answer...no.

In the context of a genetic male with feminine desires, when I have sex with another man, I'll dress the part...express myself emotionally as a woman, as well as sexually adopt the role of women.

The men I'm with want to be with me because I am (in part) a woman. If you are a man who loves the female form (although slightly altered), then you are not gay.

[ASPHIXIATION]

I believe that all of us are born somewhere on a sexual continuum, where the extremes are all hetero and all gay. I I do not like guys,, muscles, masculinity,,,,, but curves and softness. I do not have a problem finding shemale's sexxy.

[qnahas]

only tgirl

men ohhh nooooo