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I will for ever challenge the view that genitals are necessarily signifying gender. When trans*women choose to go through SRS it's probably based on an adopted societal modus operandum that a penis sits on a man, a vagina in a woman and all that jazz. It may be a strong and personal feeling, but it's none the less based on a rather traditional view on sexual organs. Could they ever truly realize that gender identity happens between the ears and not between the thighs, many regrets would be avoided. But we live in a prude mentality society that continuously mistakes sexual attributes with gender identification, and as long as transsexuals buy into that false perception they will keep mutilating themselves. Some may feel happy and liberated, others may regret it... Next step is to get a future laser-treatment for changing the cromozomes... The thing is to change the legal aspects so that trans*women and men can get a legal gender change without the SRS and regrets that follow. To just accept that ppl have their ways and should be allowed to without all the cruelty. That may be a far fetched future... damn, b4 we get there, we MAY actually be able to change the cromozomes medically... But what a shame that it remains so hard for our socalled democratic societies to acccept something as both beautiful and harmless as transsexuality. H
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I knew since i was about 6 years old that i should have been a girl, So this wasn't a phase i was going thru or just some whim this was always how i felt so i decided to stop trying to live a lie and this past Jan i took a trip to Thailand and had SRS because it was something i had to do and now for the first time in my life i feel at home in my own body my outside now matchs how i feel on the inside and i have no regrets
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Yes Jen well done!
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All three apply in various degrees of influence for all of us.
For myself, locally it is my personna that identifies me, not my body. "While the rose is beautiful, it is the fragrance we remember." My friend saw this and said of me,"For you Fran, while the fire is fasinating it is the warmth we seek." ![]() |
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to deep and serious for me
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If transwomen were born into a society that quite easily accepted people living with whatever degree of femininity or masuclinity they wanted, or adopt to any number of categories that were considered fine and dandy amongst their brethren, would they still feel the need to make changes to their body that simulate the female status? Or to go more extreme, if a transwoman was born amongst a colony of only transwomen people, and knew nothing of females, would they feel a desire to reassign their genitals? It's hard to imagine so. Then again, if one grew up without a penis, and lived amongst women only, having never seen a penis, could they still desire to suck a cock? Perhaps all desires have their origins in our social circumstance.
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Society is to blame for many things. Certainly a lack of true democratic openmindedness that seems to be so hard for any one to accept. And in that lack of understanding, our democratic law makers keep missing the point. Based on stupidity and a little bit of hatred too, I'm sure. Taboo rules the world! Trannies are freaks, ain't they? Pathetic and confused souls with a screwed up mind! Ain't they? The kind of non-ppl we all laugh about and shake our better-witted heads over because we have obviously from the very beginning understood that their gender issues are just hillarious and so totally "elephant-man..." So at least, if they take them selves seriously, then the least they could do is to mutilate them selves. We'll still smile, but at least - after they are severely mutilated - we MAY grant them their ridiculous wishes... the poor, confused souls... who cares? They don't matter a bit any ways... do they? I get your point, tgsexual, but I still get so sad when this issue comes up, bcuz it is so unreasonable. H
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From the perception of somebody who's know since they were 5 that they were female (one of the earliest things I can clearly remember in my life), I don't think any single one of these factors stands out. They all affect my thinking about SRS and I'm not in the "I hate my penis" camp - I just want it turned inside out!
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