oke THATS IT! ive had it i think im about to flipout..

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by timshield

what im about to say may sound to some people quite controversial, thats fine im aware of that..

anyway i fancy lb's transgirls for quite sometime been with a couple and i still consider myself a straight guy (like quite some people on this forum to)
cause to me its obvious i just love their feminine look/touch/behaviour even the rational thinking they might or might not have as a guy..
so for that i can love em , i can never be intimidate (like a kiss) or ''love'' a guy so for me thats just clear anyways, now bout the thing thats flipping me over!

i had to hear it from a guy i know not a real friend that a gay guy i know(unfortunatly) he ''found out i was ''gay''. so i played a little joke act normal but i want to fucking smack the guy goddammit.
he probably saw me and a ex-ladyboy friend hanging out.. this just FREAKS ME OUT how can you possible gossip that around just like that like its okay to just do that.. without even thinking of discretion i mean if i was ''gay'' arent there some obvious unwritten rules that you dont go around telling everyone without knowing for sure the gayguy is out of the closat it might fuckup youre whole life (or better it) but thats just not ethical..FUCKSAKE i
hate these gay man who act all feminine i cant stand it the gossiping the tone the gestures(overacting it like a dramaqueen) dont get me wrong i know im controversial with this and its not like im saying i dont find it okay to be gay thats fine with me but the way some of em have to act its freaking me out
if this gossip spreads it could ruin some parts of my life i know i might sound like a hypocrite but i am who i am. (a macho/straight ladyboy lover is that possible?)

It goes with the territory, I'm afraid - no, we're not gay but try to tell that to some uneducated trans/homofobian with a mindset the size of his own dick...

Just shake your head, try to explain and if nothing helps, let them be. To some you will always be a flaming queen...

I dig your frustration, though.