Does liking shemales make you gay?

[GRH]

I would argue the inverse to be true, but that's just me. And not a very popular notion around here.

[shooting_shark]

I agree that many, many t-girls can be immensely sexually attractive for straight men.... as long as their private parts aren't in view. But as soon as the cock and balls spring bravely into the light of day, most straight men would lose interest. And I've seen many t-girls on this forum saying the same things from experience.

So no, being gay isn't the only way you won't like trannies. Now if what you're looking for is placing yourself and your preferences as far away from "gay" as you can, that's something else..... but kinda superfluous I'd say...

Gay, straight, whatever... Labels are pretty meaningless at the end of it.

I've met a few guys are who are quite adamant that just because they like TVs they're straight and could never fuck another guy - even some of the ones who are desperate to get their lips round your cock will tell you this

[randolph]

Originally Posted by shooting_shark

I agree that many, many t-girls can be immensely sexually attractive for straight men.... as long as their private parts aren't in view. But as soon as the cock and balls spring bravely into the light of day, most straight men would lose interest. And I've seen many t-girls on this forum saying the same things from experience.

So no, being gay isn't the only way you won't like trannies. Now if what you're looking for is placing yourself and your preferences as far away from "gay" as you can, that's something else..... but kinda superfluous I'd say...

WRONG! All of the shemale porn sites emphasize the Tgirls cock, the bigger the better. Surveys indicate that it is straight white males that are their best customers. Many straight men find shecock a tremendous turnon.

[crossingoceans]

The point is, that it's a fact that T-girl porn is gaining a lot of popularity nowadays. I read that article as well, and I was quite imprssed about it. Never though I'd see that coming.

[sniffmeister]

I like the looks of shemales, I find it erotic.

But Im straight, I like girls and I've never find guys attractive, but why do I find shemales attractive?

Am I really gay, but I think Im Straight?
Am I Bi? Or Am I just a normal straight guy with fetishes?

[avatar69]

Look! from my personal exp., You are not GAY! as you said. Because you don't fancy male, obviously. For myself, I have a ladyboys(post-op) fiancee. I've been into ladyboys since ever, these girls are the coolest living human-being ever. If you interest in faminine people (shemales, ladyboys, women) then you're not gay!. My family doesn't like the idea of gay things too, Its bugging me too... so don't worry, be the person you are! don't care what others said! you are what you are and no one can take that away from you!

[chakal2006]

im not gay, im not attracted to masculine men, i hate their voices and the way that they look .

i never want to be fucked , i dont even want a girl near my ass.


but i got attracted to this tgirl named "doll" from texas,

is this wrong, is anybody else like me, that is straight but likes to look at shemales from time to time.





is this wrong? ...


plz discuss

[rockabilly]

"Am i gay?"

That question is asked on alot of forums , let me ask a question.

"What do you think ?"

Your opinion should be the only one that matters , but i know all to well that pressure and judgement from society and family can make things harder than they need to be.

At the end of the day just be happy and live for yourself because you can't please everyone. Love and be loved ... be happy everyone.

[tslust]

Originally Posted by rockabilly

"Am i gay?"

That question is asked on alot of forums , let me ask a question.

"What do you think ?"

Your opinion should be the only one that matters , but i know all to well that pressure and judgement from society and family can make things harder than they need to be.

At the end of the day just be happy and live for yourself because you can't please everyone. Love and be loved ... be happy everyone.

You said it, baby.
IMHO You like what you like. I don't know why some people have to get hung up on the whole "am I gay or am I straight" thing. What's wrong with being bi?

[GRH]

If ever there were a bunch of rationalizations for why a man liking cock is not gay, this thread is surely it.

Trans women are women. How can you possibly be “gay” for being attracted to them? If you don’t “get” this, you should read some of the biographies of the models you like. Or some of the postings on this forum. Or look up “gender identity” on the Internet.

I don’t know why this is so hard to understand. Also the “gay/straight” issue shouldn’t matter either--if you are attracted to someone, does it really matter what’s “down there”? However, I understand what many of you are going through because I questioned it myself--was I suddenly “gay”? After a great deal of consideration and reading other people’s posts on forums like this, I concluded that I wasn’t. But if I had decided that I was gay, I would still be “OK” with myself. So, much of it comes back to how you view yourself and who you are attracted to. If you like someone who has a hard, muscular body, or a hairy chest, and they must have a cock, then yes maybe you are gay. If you like all types, and have had sex with both men and women, then you are most likely bi. For myself, I like a very feminine face and body--most female bodybuilders and trans men do not “do it” for me.

Everyone on this forum knows that I would die for Kelly Shore. Also, a few months ago, I listed about 20-30 well known “tgirls” that I really like. And many of you know I was a judge for the 2009 “Tranny Awards.” Just for fun I thought I’d post some pics of a few of my favorite cis women. Don’t think they need any introduction! I would include a picture of my “ex” but I don’t need any legal problems…

Questions for the guys: Would you suddenly be “gay” if you found out any of the women below had a penis? How would you feel if you met someone you really were attracted to and discovered her “secret”--would you stop liking her--or would you be OK with it? How would you make love to her if you have only been with cis women? These are essentially the questions I asked myself when I first discovered I liked “tgirls.” Kate Walsh is a very special case as she did in fact play a trans woman on CSI. I wrote about that experience in another post.

[The Conquistador]

Originally Posted by aw9725

Trans women are women. How can you possibly be “gay” for being attracted to them? If you don’t “get” this, you should read some of the biographies of the models you like. Or some of the postings on this forum. Or look up “gender identity” on the Internet.

I don’t know why this is so hard to understand. Also the “gay/straight” issue shouldn’t matter either--if you are attracted to someone, does it really matter what’s “down there”? However, I understand what many of you are going through because I questioned it myself--was I suddenly “gay”? After a great deal of consideration and reading other people’s posts on forums like this, I concluded that I wasn’t. But if I had decided that I was gay, I would still be “OK” with myself. So, much of it comes back to how you view yourself and who you are attracted to.

...

Questions for the guys: Would you suddenly be “gay” if you found out any of the women below had a penis? How would you feel if you met someone you really were attracted to and discovered her “secret”--would you stop liking her--or would you be OK with it? How would you make love to her if you have only been with cis women? These are essentially the questions I asked myself when I first discovered I liked “tgirls.” Kate Walsh is a very special case as she did in fact play a trans woman on CSI. I wrote about that experience in another post.

Nice post. Worrying about whether you are gay or not seems rather trivial and it only seems like a gimmick by others to make themselves important somehow; as if your purported "gayness" somehow directly affects them in a negative manner.

I think Kate Beckinsale and Jennifer Aniston would look awesome with some "extra" between their legs.

[f5100]

Originally Posted by GRH

If ever there were a bunch of rationalizations for why a man liking cock is not gay, this thread is surely it.

Exactly.. I am new here so maybe should tread very carefully but have wondered this often myself recently.

Sure can say labels don't matter and don't want to get fucked in the ass (who does?), but in the end its finding a penis attractive.. IMO there is a gay element to that regardless.

[pearcewr81]

i've spoken to a few of my gay friends about this and they assure me that i am not gay for liking shemales. the whole gay/strait thing refers to if you like women or men. since shemales are women, you arent gay

[ldom26]

I don't know what is it about a woman with a dick but I know it drives me wild and the thought of sticking my cock in one drives me insane, just hope one day it will become a reality and not just a thought in my head !!!!Does that make me gay ........ I don't think so !!


Ladyboys all the way, I would never let a man put his cock but would gladly let a ladyboy stick her stiff cock deep inside me, infact I dream of the day this happens

[Hedonistman]

only you can know if you're gay or not... fuck labels,,,go w/what's in your head,, how YOU think and feel is all that matters...

[CCC]

Come on --give me hand here.

If you like girls only then you are straight
If you like guys only then you are gay
If a girl likes a girl then you are a lesbian
If a guy like girls and guys then he is Bi-
If you think that T-Gurls are girls with a cock (like I do) then you must still therefor be straight---right???

Of course if you like girls, guys and T-gurls you should always be getting lucky.

[smc]

Originally Posted by CCC

Come on --give me hand here.

If you like girls only then you are straight
If you like guys only then you are gay
If a girl likes a girl then you are a lesbian
If a guy like girls and guys then he is Bi-
If you think that T-Gurls are girls with a cock (like I do) then you must still therefor be straight---right???

Of course if you like girls, guys and T-gurls you should always be getting lucky.

This is clearly the definition of someone to whom it is important that you be identified as straight.

There are many, many threads and posts about this topic. The bottom line from those of us who are comfortable with our sexuality is this:

WHO CARES ABOUT THESE LABELS!!!

[IronCity]

Originally Posted by smc

WHO CARES ABOUT THESE LABELS!!!

EXactly!!!!!!! if you like girl penis ... are you gay??? I dunno .... i like girl penis... am i gay... i dont think i am .... i dont want a mans penis... but what if i am gay .. so what .....other people dont have to know what you like.... who you like... its not like you have to put bi/gay/straight on your drivers license or your library card. Deep down inside you know what you are.. so embrace it and live life....today could be your last day on this earth... stop labeling and start living!!!

[FMB]

http://overanalysis.wordpress.com/tag/house-md/

Enjoy.

[valentinetabitha]

Anything that cites Wikipedia as a legitimate source is instantly a joke.

[FMB]

Originally Posted by valentinetabitha

Anything that cites Wikipedia as a legitimate source is instantly a joke.

Far too simplistic way of looking at things. I've used Wikipedia writing essays but cross referenced the facts using other sources. If you just use wikipedia then yeah fair enough. Just because there is some garbage on there it doesn't mean it all is.

[SOMEONE NEW]

Originally Posted by guest

or better yet, are WE gay?

ok so for about a year now i've been extremely turned on by shemales (obviously or i wouldn't be here right now)... but i'm also very attracted to women. i really like the thought of a hard cock and large balls on a very feminine type of girl, it really turns me on. but i am confused because i see these shemales as girls, even though they have dicks. i am also very opposed to the idea of a dick in my ass, i really think it's sick and would never do it, but i would love to stick mine in a shemale. the thought of calling myself "bisexual" or gay annoys me because i don't like men at all. i don't have fantasies about wearing wemon's clothing or anything like that.. the only doubt about myself i have is my love for a women with a long hard cock. i can't talk about this to anyone personally becuase they will think i'm gay, and everyone close to me is opposed to gay things.. especially my friends, because i'm still in high school, and let's just say i'm probably younger than everyone here.

so i was wondering if anyone has similar feelings, or can give me some advice?

I love beautiful shemales too and I have a girlfriend who by way doesn't mind me looking at shemales. I too have a lot of questions!

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[cyrthulem]

Why does it have to be a transsexual for me to like the cock and not a guy's cock?

[Tranny Sore-Ass Rex]

Originally Posted by cyrthulem

Why does it have to be a transsexual for me to like the cock and not a guy's cock?

If you're gay, then there's no problem at all.

I know it sounds strange to fancy she-males over males, a cock is a cock, right?
I simply find their (she-males) uniqueness to be more of an attraction than just a cock. That's me and I'm ok with that.

[cyrthulem]

I have been turned on by guys and drag queen before but not lately. What does it say about me sexually if I want them to give me a**l I also want to eat their c*m.

[valentinetabitha]

Originally Posted by fatbloke

How is it that i can look at a beautiful TG cock and want to kiss it,suck it,taste her cum and want it in my bum,but the sight of a mans erect cock revolts me?

I used to have that problem too. The idea of a penis grossed me out unless a nice set of tits were attached as well. I've found its a progression. Slowly you'll start finding the less feminine girls on this site attractive, getting to the point where you know it is basically a man in a dress.

Once you reach that point it is only a matter of time before you accept that what you've been attracted to all along is cock and it has just taken a while for you to accept that it's okay. That's how it was for me. I still far, far prefer trans porn, but every once in a while I just enjoy looking at a nice, think cock glistening with precum

[AmyW]

I pretty much had to accept that if I was going to watch porn for any significant length of time, I was eventually going to see an erect male penis. I couldn't just watch lesbian porn forever, y'know?

But otherwise, yes, I was in the same situation. Female penis = yay, male penis = meh. Isn't this fetish fun?

[sesame]

Originally Posted by fatbloke

How is it that i can look at a beautiful TG cock and want to kiss it,suck it,taste her cum and want it in my bum,but the sight of a mans erect cock revolts me?

Thats because you are attracted not to the cock itself, but to the feminine body it belongs to.

[no1000]

I'm with you brother. I've just grown to accept it. I like she-cock but no man-cock.

[CI_Mahon]

All forms of cock is hot, man-cock and she-cock alike, but when it s on a beautiful feminine form it s just so much more of a turn on, for me anyway.

[virtualflower]

I am like you - cock on a hairy guy does nothing for me.

Cock and hanging balls on a smooth feminine body and I am raring to go!

[WudLuv2try]

Originally Posted by fatbloke

How is it that i can look at a beautiful TG cock and want to kiss it,suck it,taste her cum and want it in my bum,but the sight of a mans erect cock revolts me?

Think of it this way.

The 'cock' is the gift, and the 'person' is the gift box.

[joh]

I don't know I know once a man has been with a shemale and fell in love with her and worshiped big cock the bond is very strong and being with a g girl doesn't compare

Joh

Nope i love pussy but i also like a chick with a big dick haha

[luvigne]

I tend not to use "labels" but I don't think I'm gay for liking shemales

I am attracted to both women and shemales but I am not attracted to men. Although on the rare occasion I do find I get turned on by a guys cock, but not the man whose cock it is...

I like women and cocks. I am straight with a cock fetish

[sosed]

I'm not interested in males, so I'm not gay. I'm interested in females, be it genetic girls or t-girls. It is not so important what she have between her legs, but that she is a girl in bed and in everyday life and that I could treat her as a girl. Even a genetic girl, who want to be more male than I am, is not what I wish.

And even if it makes you gay, sow what?

As already stated in this thread, its just how you look at it. My love for shemales doesnt have anthing to do with males... its just that i love some cock now and then OK, guys have them to, but they cant turn me on at all!

[OMG]

Originally Posted by luvigne

I tend not to use "labels" but I don't think I'm gay for liking shemales

I am attracted to both women and shemales but I am not attracted to men. Although on the rare occasion I do find I get turned on by a guys cock, but not the man whose cock it is...

I like women and cocks. I am straight with a cock fetish

Yep, what he said .

[tsfever]

I know many men look at this thread and wonder about their sexuality. Think of it this way:

1) You might be gay. If you like men you like men ... COOLIO! I personally do not think being attracted to a T-girl is a "gateway drug"...lol

2 You might be Straight. I personally feel this way. I LOVE gg's and very passable Tg's. If I really had to "Frued" myself I'd say it is because I am a Sub in bed...... so what better than a TG?

3) You are neither and both. You like what you like. Men, Girls, T-girls.... Nuthing wrong with that either!


You are who you are. You like what you like. None of this "makes " you gay, straight or otherwise,

Spend your time enjoying what you enjoy, instead of worrying about the "label" you need to attach to yourself.

We are all gonna die , so you got this life.... enjoy it!!!

[tgirlluvver]

Straight, period!

A pre-op transgendered woman is a transgendered female.

It's just about a male loving a female.

It's not at all homosexuality!

[deusex]

when I first started looking at ladyboy pics I was telling myself over again That 'i'm not gay'. but couple of years later I've opened my mind and enjoy anything from gay to crossdressers to femboys etc..!!!

[wdavidsond]

I don't feel that liking trannies makes me gay The sight of a ladyboys breast makes all the difference the dick I prefer a small uncut one but the combination is more than I can take the beauty of the best of both sexes is very obvious in the trannie

[Derek1968]

Originally Posted by guest

or better yet, are WE gay?

ok so for about a year now i've been extremely turned on by shemales (obviously or i wouldn't be here right now)... but i'm also very attracted to women. i really like the thought of a hard cock and large balls on a very feminine type of girl, it really turns me on. but i am confused because i see these shemales as girls, even though they have dicks. i am also very opposed to the idea of a dick in my ass, i really think it's sick and would never do it, but i would love to stick mine in a shemale. the thought of calling myself "bisexual" or gay annoys me because i don't like men at all. i don't have fantasies about wearing wemon's clothing or anything like that.. the only doubt about myself i have is my love for a women with a long hard cock. i can't talk about this to anyone personally becuase they will think i'm gay, and everyone close to me is opposed to gay things.. especially my friends, because i'm still in high school, and let's just say i'm probably younger than everyone here.

so i was wondering if anyone has similar feelings, or can give me some advice?

I am sexually attracted only to women and have never had sex of any kind with a man, nor am I attracted in anyway to cross-dressing or -dressers, yet I, like you, find "fake shemales" a special turn on, followed by shapely, as female-looking as possible, real shemales, i.e. ones with beautiful females bodies and faces. My opinion is this: the transformation in childhood of everyone's innate bisexuality carries them to where what is attractive and not disgusting to them is acceptable; most everything else seems neutral or disgusting; some objects of desire may be modified but a great many that were only potentially desirable become impossible. I am heterosexual--not because my "gayness" has been injured. I had the potential to be bisexual, but am heterosexual. Being gay may be mostly genetic; I don't have "the gay gene" (it isn't as if I were missing something, however). Moreover, my taste for pictures of shemales (not a taste for them in actuality, mind you; it's a fantasy!) arose one day in a flash of inspiration about 20 years ago (before the internet) when I wanted to represent "an additional jolt of "sexual oomph" to a fantasy of Woman (it had nothing to do with a man). I thought of a gorgeous woman with a phallus, bisexual (a zest for women as well as for men). With a phallus, my fantasy woman could boost other women to Wonderland as well as men who have discovered their g-spot is in their prostate gland). Don't fret. You aren't gay. You're looking for a woman who will be as interested in sex as you are and who wants to fuck you.

[mabedzaqueen]

Originally Posted by Derek1968

I am heterosexual--not because my "gayness" has been injured. I had the potential to be bisexual, but am heterosexual. Being gay may be mostly genetic; I don't have "the gay gene" (it isn't as if I were missing something, however).

Loved your post, Derek, and even if my views differ somewhat from yours, I'd like to comment on it... So I'll get straight (ahem) to the point: Suppose one typical guy (let's call him Fred) in his mid-forties, totally oblivious to the possible presence of a "gay gene" in his system, begins to feel an overwhelming desire for cock (he had always been into cis-women), no matter who the cock belongs to (guy or girl)... Kind of unsettled, he pays a visit to his doctor: "Nah, don't worry Fred, you're straight in the middle of a seveeere mid-life crisis, that's all... Sooner than you know, it'll be just a memory!" Hummm... Guess what? Eight years later, Fred's still into cock, more than ever... Now I'm not askin' you for a diagnosis, Derek, but you apparently know a thing or two about some sort of "gay gene", right? So I'd like to know if there's a chance (so to speak) that he'd been born with said gene in his system, but for some reason the thing waited 'til Fred becomes more vulnerable, physically or emotionally, before hitting... not unlike some sort of "intelligent", devastating virus?

[SwedishTsGirl]

Originally Posted by guest

Does liking shemales make u gay or better yet, are WE gay?
Ok so for about a year now i've been extremely turned on by shemales (obviously or i wouldn't be here right now)... but i'm also very attracted to women. i really like the thought of a hard cock and large balls on a very feminine type of girl, it really turns me on.

The answer is a big NO!. Liking shemales doesent make a man gay, it makes maybe a man somewhat bisexual..bot NOT gay. Gaymen doesnt like any type of feminity, they are ONLY turned on the male body..THATS what make them gay and not straight or bisexual. There is a metafor in clothing..nothing makes a woman so feminine as wearing SOME traditional male clothing..my theory that the same phenomena is making its remark here...concerning mens attraction into shemales...nothing makes a sweet girl so extremly feminine as a penis bewteen her legs..the male organ makes her apperiance and the soft feminine shemale body superfeminine!

[randolph]

Originally Posted by SwedishTsGirl

The answer is a big NO!. Liking shemales doesent make a man gay, it makes maybe a man somewhat bisexual..bot NOT gay. Gaymen doesnt like any type of feminity, they are ONLY turned on the male body..THATS what make them gay and not straight or bisexual. There is a metafor in clothing..nothing makes a woman so feminine as wearing SOME traditional male clothing..my theory that the same phenomena is making its remark here...concerning mens attraction into shemales...nothing makes a sweet girl so extremly feminine as a penis between her legs..the male organ makes her appearance and the soft feminine shemale body superfeminine!

This is an interesting comment. A woman can increase her feminity by wearing some male clothing, the converse seems to be a transsexual wearing feminine clothing obviously increases her feminity. But a cock also increases the transsexuals feminity. Interesting how the mind works.
By the way, you may get into trouble here, by referring to a shemales penis as the (male organ).

[CCC]

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A funny thing happened this past week when I was in the Castro District of San Francisco. I was walking up Castro St with my ex wife when a very tall drag queen walked past us with speed. She stands 6'4" barefoot then with 6" stiletto's and a huge wig-totalling over 7'. Now that's saying something as my ex is 6' and wears a 38 inseam-10 inches longer than me. Next thing you know we are following her into her store where we ended up spending almost an hour chatting and ex trying on shoes. By the time we left-we were more like 3 old buds. Queen gave ex a big hug and then proceeded to offer me (accepted of course) a big long hug embrace and kisses on each others cheeks. As we start up the sidewalk - ex smiles and says something about that looooong sexy embrace and kisses and remarks commence about not knowing I had gay tendencies or appreciation- while chuckling away. That opened to a great conversation about the fact that "queenie" to me was not a man but was a woman with a pecker and therefore sexy. If the ex didn't get sick the next day we would have been going to the best drag/ts up close and personal show in Frisco. Got a big feeling that is going to lead to a threesome sometime shortly down the road when she returns here later this spring.

Little does she know that I would and have sucked - sucked by, fucked and fucked by every ts that has come my way. Oh - am I gay? As per the discussion we three had--guys whether bears, twinks or muscles does not interest me.