Am I really the only one who ever had a meaningful relationship with a trans*woman?

[kilgoretrout]

Hank
The only ones I have run into were either pros or playing a wide field. I have never met a TS that was looking for a relationship. Too bad. I am not keen on having to go the pro route. And unbridled promiscuity in this day and age has its risks.

[tslust]

Hank, I'd love to have a relationship with a good man. I've had a few relationships, but after that last bastard, I've almost given up on having a meaningful relationship. So, for now, I stick to having some NSA fun. I know that its not real love but it beats a fake relationship any day.

[rockabilly]

NSA fun? National Security Agency? ... I'm confused ... what about me?

[tslust]

Originally Posted by rockabilly

NSA fun? National Security Agency? ... I'm confused ... what about me?

No Strings Attached
I was referring to my last boyfriend. At first, he seemed soo sweet and kind. He convinced me to move in with him. It was soo great at first. Then he became obessive, controlling, and abusive(mostly verbal). I finally had all I could take. I left him, he started following me. I even went to the cops, but they woldn't do anything. Then one day, he found me. He thought he could take me. I showed him my suprise, and politely informed him that if I ever saw him again, no one else would.

I wasn't talking about you, baby. You're such a sweet, caring, and not to mention sexy guy.

[rockabilly]

Aww now i'm blushing

[transjen]

Hank i'm sure you are not alone, As i'm sure lots of guy can and have a meaningful relationship with a Tgirl, The trick is finding another person who wants a meaningful relationship. Some people just live for the moment. Before i met my boyfriend i was starting to think i'd be alone for life Jennifer

[Bionca]

I've been lucky I guess I had a guy for 7 years (before he ruined it) and how I have a pretty swell guy and quite a few very good male friends (you know who you are).

On the other hand, I've been with some total cowards, violent guys, as well as manipulative jerks. My friends and I could tell some pretty damning stories of how hard it is to find a guy.

I often assume that the trade-off for feeling ok in my own body is that I am unlovable. That I am ultimately disposable because I was selfish enough to do what had to be done. I know it isn't logical, but I've given guys so many chances both as individuals and as a group.

Stuff is good with the fella and I, but I just wonder when it will become too difficult, or he meets a cuter gal (trans or cis), or decides he wants babies.