Secret Love for Trans*women

[belfagar]

I don't think I would like my wife to find the material i have on my comp. If she did however I would never lie. I would explain things to her and leave the ball in her court. I am not ashamed. It is my "hobby", Not hers. I have no desire to explore a sexual relationship with any other lady, I'm married. If I was single, Well than all bets are off. I would love to have met a woman like Bionca when I was single. I met my wife instead. Love is one thing, Love for masturbation and Personal excitement are another. Beautiful woman excite me. enuff said.....

I'm not ashamed of my attraction to transwomen, I'm just affraid of how it might be handled amongst my family and friends. I mean, most of them accept homsexuality and transexuality, but others dont (for the most part, the older generations of my family). I dont know whether it would be accepted or not.

I am also a very shy perosn. I keep a lot of my thoughts and emotions to myself. When annoyed I certinately make my presence known, but otherwise not.

[belfagar]

Good to hear buddy. I like your avatar. been said before im sure.

[Reslemock]

So far no one in my family know my attraction for T-girls because I don't know how they would reacted to the fact that I love girls with a pennies. There are the time that I wish that I could just say it out loud but... I don't think the would understand.

I posted my reply just now in that thread, so no need to rehash it here. I'll just say that I hope someday to be in the "everybody knows" category. (You'll have to read my response in the other thread Bionca linked to in order to completely understand that...yes, I am hopeless, indeed!)

[aa2239]

Nah, not afraid or ashamed... like smc, I'm just a very private person when it comes to certain things. I generally don't tell friends or family about the GG's I date or "hook-up" with, and the same goes for t-girls. But if asked a direct question about my love for t-girls, I'll give a direct answer.

Undoubtedly, lots of other people who find t-girls attractive ARE afraid and/or ashamed... justifiably so, in some cases. For example, I do sympathise somewhat with the 40-something year old man with a wife and kids, who suddenly discovers the beauty and joys of transsexual women, and pretty much HAS to keep it a secret, for fear of losing his prudish wife, and thereby breaking up his family. I think more common is the fear that liking t-girls makes you gay, and the response this would provoke in others.