Girls: your sexual orientation please

[liesjeversteven]

I'm a lesbian, have been for as long as I can remember. As for tgirls, well, they're girls too, just a little more special.

[Bionca]

Most of the gals I know online identify as lesbian or bi trans* or strictly date other trans* (m/f). I sometimes feel like I have to mention that some of us like guys too lol.

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Most of the gals I know online identify as lesbian or bi trans* or strictly date other trans* (m/f). I sometimes feel like I have to mention that some of us like guys too lol.

I have to agree on this. My experience is that many more trans*women from the West are sexually oriented toward other trans*women or, indeed, cisgender women than is the case in Asia.

Actually, I don't think that I here have ever met a trans*woman who's into girls... that's actually a major and rather interesting difference between Asian and Western trans*reality.

And no Fi (replying to another post now), you're not gay... you are a wonderful trans*woman with a healthy and natural attraction to guys, baby... ;-)

H

[CuriousGirl]

I'm a genetic and very feminine female, in my 20's, who just happens to have a fairly new and rapidly growing fascination with shemales. For someone so new to this I seem to have some rather rigid standards as to what really turns me on.
First, I prefer Asian shemales, especially the new group of Japanese "newhalfs" that have appeared as of late.
Second, I LOVE small penises on "my" shemales and am pretty much turned off by big ones, especially if erect. (Weirder still...I DO love a large hard penis and have a special male friend who provides me with on to suck and take into my other two entry ways so often as I want...and I want OFTEN!)
Third, I prefer shemale (again, especially Asian) penises to be soft in most of the pics and vids I see and watch. Some erect penises are attractive to me if small even when erect, such as Ladyboy Amy/Emma's stubby little one and a few others. An exception to my "rule" is Mandy's famous penis. For some reason I get wet in my >^..^< and salivate at the sight of it, hard OR soft, maybe because she's been castrated (See "Sixth" kink below.)
Fourth, I don't care if the penis is circumcised or not but I do not like those with obvious phimosis...I want to SEE the it's pretty little head and NOT see, smell, or (God forbid!) taste that yukky stuff under the foreskin of someone with phimosis or who is not obsessively clean at all times; I am, so why shouldn't they be?
Fifth, I don't like "Mushroom" heads. I want the head to be pretty. Mandy's tapered little head is good example.
Sixth,...Are you sitting down? OK, here: A girl with whom I share Sapphic delights with has turned me on to castration...EEEK! I am fascinated by it.
Now, thanks to her, I've met my ultimate fantasy in the flesh (minus some flesh, if you get my drift.) I now have met and seen, in person; in the nude, a castrated Asian Ladyboy! (Thai, beautiful, young, and fun in ways not restricted to the bedroom.) Now we're hoping Santa will bring us a castrated Japanese Newhalf for Xmas.
And you thought you men were the kinky ones!
Orientation? I haven't figured out if I'm "Bi" or "Tri".

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by CuriousGirl

I'm a genetic and very feminine female, in my 20's, who just happens to have a fairly new and rapidly growing fascination with shemales. For someone so new to this I seem to have some rather rigid standards as to what really turns me on.
First, I prefer Asian shemales, especially the new group of Japanese "newhalfs" that have appeared as of late.
Second, I LOVE small penises on "my" shemales and am pretty much turned off by big ones, especially if erect. (Weirder still...I DO love a large hard penis and have a special male friend who provides me with on to suck and take into my other two entry ways so often as I want...and I want OFTEN!)
Third, I prefer shemale (again, especially Asian) penises to be soft in most of the pics and vids I see and watch. Some erect penises are attractive to me if small even when erect, such as Ladyboy Amy/Emma's stubby little one and a few others. An exception to my "rule" is Mandy's famous penis. For some reason I get wet in my >^..^< and salivate at the sight of it, hard OR soft, maybe because she's been castrated (See "Sixth" kink below.)
Fourth, I don't care if the penis is circumcised or not but I do not like those with obvious phimosis...I want to SEE the it's pretty little head and NOT see, smell, or (God forbid!) taste that yukky stuff under the foreskin of someone with phimosis or who is not obsessively clean at all times; I am, so why shouldn't they be?
Fifth, I don't like "Mushroom" heads. I want the head to be pretty. Mandy's tapered little head is good example.
Sixth,...Are you sitting down? OK, here: A girl with whom I share Sapphic delights with has turned me on to castration...EEEK! I am fascinated by it.
Now, thanks to her, I've met my ultimate fantasy in the flesh (minus some flesh, if you get my drift.) I now have met and seen, in person; in the nude, a castrated Asian Ladyboy! (Thai, beautiful, young, and fun in ways not restricted to the bedroom.) Now we're hoping Santa will bring us a castrated Japanese Newhalf for Xmas.
And you thought you men were the kinky ones!
Orientation? I haven't figured out if I'm "Bi" or "Tri".

Cool

What on earth is a "newhalf" - I thought I'd heard it all...

Apparently a castration-fetish isn't just a male thing. You are, ofcourse, aware that full SRS includes castration? Somehow I sense you like her with a little pecker intact but no balls? You won't find many of those, but unfortunately many Asian trans*women will go the way to please their lover... you sound like sort of a "dangerous" lover... what will you do with her once you get tired of her and her balls are already off?

Your sexual orientation? How about trans*lover? Or rather NEUTERED male with an evening make-up lover? Take your pick...

If I were a cute little Asian trannie I'm not so sure, you'd be good news for me, baby... to you this is a bloody fetish. But do remember, that you're dealing with human beings here - not objects and freaks.

I don't think I like you a lot, sorry. I appreciate your honesty, but your cruel, fetishistic approach to transsexuality is gruesome and scary. You should consider that you belong in much, much more hardcore sadomasochistic environments. Which is fine - I'm myself pretty extreme in many sexual ways, but NEVER would I hurt another human being... I sense via your honest writing that, indeed, you would... if you had the opportunity.

I may be wrong, but am I?

H

new halves are japanese shemales.

yeah i think they should just be called ladyboys. dunno whats so necessary about the term new half

[ila]

Originally Posted by hankhavelock

Apparently a castration-fetish isn't just a male thing. You are, ofcourse, aware that full SRS includes castration? Somehow I sense you like her with a little pecker intact but no balls? You won't find many of those, but unfortunately many Asian trans*women will go the way to please their lover... you sound like sort of a "dangerous" lover... what will you do with her once you get tired of her and her balls are already off?

Your sexual orientation? How about trans*lover? Or rather NEUTERED male with an evening make-up lover? Take your pick...

If I were a cute little Asian trannie I'm not so sure, you'd be good news for me, baby... to you this is a bloody fetish. But do remember, that you're dealing with human beings here - not objects and freaks.

I don't think I like you a lot, sorry. I appreciate your honesty, but your cruel, fetishistic approach to transsexuality is gruesome and scary. You should consider that you belong in much, much more hardcore sadomasochistic environments. Which is fine - I'm myself pretty extreme in many sexual ways, but NEVER would I hurt another human being... I sense via your honest writing that, indeed, you would... if you had the opportunity.

I may be wrong, but am I?

H

Hank, I think you are being rather harsh with CuriousGirl. You should read all of her posts before you pass judgement on her. I have read her posts and nowhere has she said that she wants to castrated any girl. She has said that she likes castrated girls, but she has never forced anyone to get castrated. The castrated girl that CuriousGirl always posts about was introduced to her through a mutual friend and this girl was already castrated when CuriousGirl met her. Judging from her previous posts I don't think she would force any girl to get castrated. I urge you reread CuriousGirl's post plus do a search to read her other posts and then make up your mind as to whether or not you like her.

[CuriousGirl]

Originally Posted by ila

Hank, I think you are being rather harsh with CuriousGirl. You should read all of her posts before you pass judgement on her. I have read her posts and nowhere has she said that she wants to castrated any girl. She has said that she likes castrated girls, but she has never forced anyone to get castrated. The castrated girl that CuriousGirl always posts about was introduced to her through a mutual friend and this girl was already castrated when CuriousGirl met her. Judging from her previous posts I don't think she would force any girl to get castrated. I urge you reread CuriousGirl's post plus do a search to read her other posts and then make up your mind as to whether or not you like her.

Ila,

Thanks for your post and kindness but I'm not the least bothered by Hank's post. Let's face it...some people have very poor reading and comprehension skills and tend to focus on one word or (misinterpreted) phrase, and spout a knee-jerk response based on ignorance of fact.
Would I EVER press someone to be castrated? No...unless it would prevent them from committing a sexual offense or to slow a disease such as Prostate Cancer. Would, if I had the power, order a castration? Yes...in the case of an egregious sex offender PROVEN guilty of rape, child molestation, etc. Of course I'd be willing to castrate all Somali pirates and terrorists myself...with a weedeater. Would I order Hank's castration? No...Sooner or later he'll do it himself while attempting something from either the Kama Sutra or Popular Mechanics with a piranha or an Oreck vacuum cleaner
Again, thanks!
Note to Hank: Keep 'em coming, Henry. I can always use a good giggle.

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by ila

Hank, I think you are being rather harsh with CuriousGirl. You should read all of her posts before you pass judgement on her. I have read her posts and nowhere has she said that she wants to castrated any girl. She has said that she likes castrated girls, but she has never forced anyone to get castrated. The castrated girl that CuriousGirl always posts about was introduced to her through a mutual friend and this girl was already castrated when CuriousGirl met her. Judging from her previous posts I don't think she would force any girl to get castrated. I urge you reread CuriousGirl's post plus do a search to read her other posts and then make up your mind as to whether or not you like her.

Ila, I'm sorry, but I don't share your view. I have in my time here been a bit hard on a few posters, mostly for good reasons but at times I've had to back off and appologize. I do that gladly, if it's reasonable and if I have been outta line. And admittedly I am from time to time - no doubt about that. I'm not a sweet-talker, I guess.

But not this time, unfortunately. And no, I don't think I have to read CuriousGirl's 97 other postings before I react to this one - as little as CG has bothered to read my 600+ postings before matter-of-factly indicating my lack of ability to read...

I didn't read CG's posting as just a harmless little fantasy-fetish - on the contrary I read it as something very real to her. Well, castration-fetish can be fair and square if consensual. But CG's posting triggered me, because of her honesty - her scary honesty. She meant what she wrote... if not she has a grand future in fiction-writing anyway... CG can back off all she wants.

Understand where I'm coming from here, please!

I know how far some Asian trans*women will actually be willing to go in self-mutilation to please a partner - to be accepted as a partner. I have many many many times discussed SRS with my transsexual friends, and I have quite a few times heard the horrible point of view: "I would be castrated and do SRS if it would please my partner..."

That scares the shit out of me, because these girls are so vulnerable and so eager to get a partner who loves them that they will be willing to let that partner make such a decision.

Maybe CG doesn't wanna castrate anyone, but she did touch a nerve that I cannot expect most of you to understand, because basicly very few of you have ever had a conversation with a trans*woman (sorry to pull a wee bit of "rank" here - but I have to, to make my point stick - I'm not bullshitting).

Add to this the political struggle that some of my Danish trans*friends have to ensure that trans*women can have their legal gender changed without cutting their nuts off... this may be slightly off-topic, but in the end it touches the same nerve... so to speak.

Thirdly, I HATE it, when trans*woman (with or without balls) are considered a fetish and dumb little objects. They are not. It really pisses me off like... and I'm sorry, that's just how it is, ladies.

So if I stepped on CG Babcock's toes, then too bad - she already did step back, and that's totally expectable and understandable.

By the way CG, I must grant you that your icy reply was well-written and reeked of honest hatred... ;-) Keep your sharp knives in your drawer, please, baby... ;-)

Peace

H aka Niles ;-)

And yes, I know, it would have worked better if I could truly have called you CC instead of CG... :-) So be it...

[dieterpakendorf]

Originally Posted by CuriousGirl

I'm a genetic and very feminine female, in my 20's, who just happens to have a fairly new and rapidly growing fascination with shemales. For someone so new to this I seem to have some rather rigid standards as to what really turns me on.
First, I prefer Asian shemales, especially the new group of Japanese "newhalfs" that have appeared as of late.
Second, I LOVE small penises on "my" shemales and am pretty much turned off by big ones, especially if erect. (Weirder still...I DO love a large hard penis and have a special male friend who provides me with on to suck and take into my other two entry ways so often as I want...and I want OFTEN!)
Third, I prefer shemale (again, especially Asian) penises to be soft in most of the pics and vids I see and watch. Some erect penises are attractive to me if small even when erect, such as Ladyboy Amy/Emma's stubby little one and a few others. An exception to my "rule" is Mandy's famous penis. For some reason I get wet in my >^..^< and salivate at the sight of it, hard OR soft, maybe because she's been castrated (See "Sixth" kink below.)
Fourth, I don't care if the penis is circumcised or not but I do not like those with obvious phimosis...I want to SEE the it's pretty little head and NOT see, smell, or (God forbid!) taste that yukky stuff under the foreskin of someone with phimosis or who is not obsessively clean at all times; I am, so why shouldn't they be?
Fifth, I don't like "Mushroom" heads. I want the head to be pretty. Mandy's tapered little head is good example.
Sixth,...Are you sitting down? OK, here: A girl with whom I share Sapphic delights with has turned me on to castration...EEEK! I am fascinated by it.
Now, thanks to her, I've met my ultimate fantasy in the flesh (minus some flesh, if you get my drift.) I now have met and seen, in person; in the nude, a castrated Asian Ladyboy! (Thai, beautiful, young, and fun in ways not restricted to the bedroom.) Now we're hoping Santa will bring us a castrated Japanese Newhalf for Xmas.
And you thought you men were the kinky ones!
Orientation? I haven't figured out if I'm "Bi" or "Tri".

I agree mostly with Curiousgirl. I prefer petite asian shemale. A small castrated package but definately circumcised. I love when it's soft and the head is uncovered. I think I'm mostly bi, but also still a bit confused.

[RawrKitten]

I'm bi but prefer men

[Wendy Summers]

Bi - I'm more attracted to who someone is than their biology.

And single and loving it ;p.

[GeForce]

Originally Posted by Bionca

... I sometimes feel like I have to mention that some of us like guys too lol.

So you're saying there still a chance for guys like me :P hehehe.

[O'Sully TS Hopeful]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Most of the gals I know online identify as lesbian or bi trans* or strictly date other trans* (m/f). I sometimes feel like I have to mention that some of us like guys too lol.

I'm one of man lovers. Some women I will admit that I am attracted to, but I don't think I'd sleep with them.

[transjen]

Originally Posted by O'Sully TS Hopeful

I'm one of man lovers. Some women I will admit that I am attracted to, but I don't think I'd sleep with them.

Nice to know i'm not allow here Jennifer