Are you gay? My opinion....

[jigenbakuda]

Originally Posted by miss_kandy

it's a well debated topic... perhaps we should not focus on 'labels' (although i do understand our humanistic behavior of needing to identify with something ) so i just tend to consider myself 'a sexual being'.

isn't it the age old adage of 'if you are not hurting anyone, who cares?'

perhaps my view is slightly too simplistic...LOL

oh well...i say 'if it feels good - do it!' boy-girl... boy-boy... girl-girl...

Okay I can identify with this. I am a sexual being as well. I am not attracted by sex, but by characteristics.
Soft body
Nipple color
body shape (hips tits shape... curves if you will)

Personality
I like unconfident girls... people (so I can boost their confidence)
I like open-minded people
and I like sexual people (people with high sexual energy)

Now saying this, I've only encountered women that fit my tastes, but if I met a man like that, I'd like him too... but they end up being shemales


does that... kinda make sense?

[sfbaybi]

I've been married for 20+ years and have sucked a ton of cock. I love tgurls and have the opportunity here in the Bay Area to meet quite a few at a local sex club. While not all of the cock that I've sucked has been attached to a tgurl, I certainly do prefer that. I have never been attracted to a male form, other than his/her cock. As others have already said, it's the femininity of the tgurl that turns me on the most. What else can I say? I certainly have never had an emotional attraction to a man either, hence, I do not believe I'm gay. I took a recent survey on a swinger site that we belong to. It indicated that I'm 75% straight and 25% gay. There are many closeted cock lovers within the swing community.