The Male G-spot - Fact or Myth

[vapour159]

Originally Posted by Imconfused

I would use a strap on, on my boyfriend if he asked and yes it would make me happy cause I am making him happy. I don't know exactly what he is into or how far he wants to go with anal. The only thing I have used is my finger, he seemed to like it. Im a bit afraid that if I put on a strap on and go into the room he might be like get f&ck out. Then what.
The only reason I told him about me not telling anyone if him and I were to break up is because he brought it up first, I just wanted to reasure him.

Before he left for work just a little bit ago. I had asked him all that stuff about why he hasn't been making love to me and the strap on, the only thing he said was to get rid of the dvd it wasn't important to him, but I know it is. I know he watches it everyday when I am at work or go to the store or just when ever he can. I told him I wasn't mad that I watch it but a little hurt that he doesn't make love to me anymore. So then he denied watching it. Why would he do this when I already know? Why would he say his shemale dvd isn't important to him when I know it is?
If you all knew me personally, you would see that in reality if I was your real friend...you would have a person to talk to about this and wouldn't judge you, make fun of you, call you names .....etc...you get the point. someone said labels are for canned foods not pepole. they are right. an ex boyfriend of mine that dressed in womans cloths told me..I was too good to be true he couldn't believe how well I accepted him, I went out to eat with him in public many of times while he was dressed, walked around the block did whatever. I saw the person he was on the inside and thats who I loved and I accepted everything that came along with him.....So being that I was too good to be true, he dumped me. I was crushed. I bought him womans stuff etc... I guess he couldn't handle the fact that I knew I guess.

So really, obviously he likes shemales but to what extent?! I have no idea. He wont be open with me about it. SO for real if I were to wear a strap on and walk into the bedroom, you don't think he would freak out? I do have to say that after fingering him and asking him if he wanted me to go further or take it to another level I would and when he asked I told him toys and he said yes. So I got the toys but we haven't used them yet. Is it because he is afraid of what I might think if we do use the toys?

Hi imconfused why can't i meet someone like you perfect partner for someone with likes different to the norm broad and openmined willing to explore and experiment, I totally agree with tlover's advice its him not you looking at this from a guy's point of view and also sharing the same fascination with shemales and ts's and the desire to have a sexual encounter with one, also the enjoyment of anal stimulation (with either finger or toy) as your bf i find it hard and embarrassing to talk about with a partner for the same reasons as tlover explained ,to have these desires as a male is taboo eg; two women kissing or having sex together perfectly acceptable two men on the other hand woh! frowned upon, strange eh! he will know if any of his friends found out he would feel like its the end of the world. When i said take the lead i didn't mean walk into the bed room with a strapon already on like right "right boy you want this then thats what your getting ready or not " that would scare the pants of me i meant have them close to hand and if the mood felt like it was heading that way be ready to slip it on and up,

[Imconfused]

Originally Posted by vapour159

Hi imconfused why can't i meet someone like you perfect partner for someone with likes different to the norm broad and openmined willing to explore and experiment, I totally agree with tlover's advice its him not you looking at this from a guy's point of view and also sharing the same fascination with shemales and ts's and the desire to have a sexual encounter with one, also the enjoyment of anal stimulation (with either finger or toy) as your bf i find it hard and embarrassing to talk about with a partner for the same reasons as tlover explained ,to have these desires as a male is taboo eg; two women kissing or having sex together perfectly acceptable two men on the other hand woh! frowned upon, strange eh! he will know if any of his friends found out he would feel like its the end of the world. When i said take the lead i didn't mean walk into the bed room with a strapon already on like right "right boy you want this then thats what your getting ready or not " that would scare the pants of me i meant have them close to hand and if the mood felt like it was heading that way be ready to slip it on and up,

Yeah but what is the point in having someone like me ( and I am not talking about you) When someone can't accept the fact that I accept them. As much as I say I accept him with no judgement or labels, he still denies it. So in the thread if your wife/gf wanted to be a substitute, I wrote what I wanted to do, So I wrote him a letter and left it before I went to work and at the end of that I wrote..If you don't tell me NO get ready for me to walk in one day and for that to happen. He hasn't said NO.
Also I had said he told me to get rid of the she-male dvd. I didn't I just have it with me, but see we have a teddy bear nanny cam right. It records everything..He searched high and low for that DVD and seems upset he couldn't find it....I know he will go buy another one..and like I have said I don't care...but really why deny something if a woman is sitting there telling you, you accept her. I understand what you are saying here as far as it is difficult and usually not accepted. But when it is accepted..run with it....Like I said in another thread..I am no shemale by anymeans but I can be a substitute. I know it isn't the same thing....Well you get my point...

[tlover]

Originally Posted by Imconfused

Yeah but what is the point in having someone like me ( and I am not talking about you) When someone can't accept the fact that I accept them. As much as I say I accept him with no judgement or labels, he still denies it. So in the thread if your wife/gf wanted to be a substitute, I wrote what I wanted to do, So I wrote him a letter and left it before I went to work and at the end of that I wrote..If you don't tell me NO get ready for me to walk in one day and for that to happen. He hasn't said NO.
Also I had said he told me to get rid of the she-male dvd. I didn't I just have it with me, but see we have a teddy bear nanny cam right. It records everything..He searched high and low for that DVD and seems upset he couldn't find it....I know he will go buy another one..and like I have said I don't care...but really why deny something if a woman is sitting there telling you, you accept her. I understand what you are saying here as far as it is difficult and usually not accepted. But when it is accepted..run with it....Like I said in another thread..I am no shemale by anymeans but I can be a substitute. I know it isn't the same thing....Well you get my point...

Imconfused, I think you have to accept that he is having a really tough time admitting this to anyone probably even himself.
As i said its a very big stigma for a man to face you really need to understand this, its not anything personal against you no matter how open you are with him.

[Imconfused]

Originally Posted by tlover

Imconfused, I think you have to accept that he is having a really tough time admitting this to anyone probably even himself.
As i said its a very big stigma for a man to face you really need to understand this, its not anything personal against you no matter how open you are with him.

So last night while in "bed" I asked and he asked me if it would turn me on I told him I didn't know. So anyways he let me try..Not for very long though...After we were done he told me it wasn't for him...But in the future if I wanted to use my finger that, that would be ok. Just nothing else.