The Male G-spot - Fact or Myth

[Imconfused]

If you had a girlfriend/wife that new of your interest and obviously accepted if she is still around would you ask her to put on a strap on and put it in your ace? or would you be afraid to ask?

[Excaliborg]

yes. part of human sexuality is the need to indukge in our fantasies. so if a lady is willing to explorer my fantasies as well as her own then HURRAH!!!

[tlover]

Originally Posted by Imconfused

If you had a girlfriend/wife that new of your interest and obviously accepted if she is still around would you ask her to put on a strap on and put it in your ace? or would you be afraid to ask?

Well if she knew and i felt she was totally happy with it, mabey.
But in the back of my mind i would worry if we ever broke up would she use it against me, also how would she react afterwards towards me, would she think less of me?
Would she worry about our relationship, would she think i was gay?
Mabey it would be too risky, very difficult for all.

[Imconfused]

Originally Posted by tlover

Well if she knew and i felt she was totally happy with it, mabey.
But in the back of my mind i would worry if we ever broke up would she use it against me, also how would she react afterwards towards me, would she think less of me?
Would she worry about our relationship, would she think i was gay?
Mabey it would be too risky, very difficult for all.

Tlover, I can see your point because to be completely honest with you. At first those are all the thoughts that I had running through my head.
One I love my boyfriend and knowing he's interested in shemales doesn't make me love or think any less of him. I would assume he isn't gay if he is with me. And if for some reason if our relationship ever ended, that is his private life and I wouldn't tell a soul or use it against him in anyway. I just wish he could be completely open with me and tell me why he hasn't been making love to me

[vapour159]

imconfused first not knowing you or your boyfriend i need to ask you would you use a strapon on your boyfriend if he asked and would you enjoy it? If yes don't wait to be asked speeking from experience its difficult to ask for, take the lead second i personally wouldn't recommend telling him that knowing he likes shemales wouldn't make you love him or think any less of him show him by trying what he wants also never tell him that if the relationship ended you wouldn't tell a soul or use it against him that may scare him by making him think its at the back of your mind. You seem to have a good idea of what he wants and if you like the idea instigate it if he see's your open to new things it make him feel relaxed enough to be more open with you us men are a strange breed;

[Imconfused]

Originally Posted by vapour159

imconfused first not knowing you or your boyfriend i need to ask you would you use a strapon on your boyfriend if he asked and would you enjoy it? If yes don't wait to be asked speeking from experience its difficult to ask for, take the lead second i personally wouldn't recommend telling him that knowing he likes shemales wouldn't make you love him or think any less of him show him by trying what he wants also never tell him that if the relationship ended you wouldn't tell a soul or use it against him that may scare him by making him think its at the back of your mind. You seem to have a good idea of what he wants and if you like the idea instigate it if he see's your open to new things it make him feel relaxed enough to be more open with you us men are a strange breed;

I would use a strap on, on my boyfriend if he asked and yes it would make me happy cause I am making him happy. I don't know exactly what he is into or how far he wants to go with anal. The only thing I have used is my finger, he seemed to like it. Im a bit afraid that if I put on a strap on and go into the room he might be like get f&ck out. Then what.
The only reason I told him about me not telling anyone if him and I were to break up is because he brought it up first, I just wanted to reasure him.

Before he left for work just a little bit ago. I had asked him all that stuff about why he hasn't been making love to me and the strap on, the only thing he said was to get rid of the dvd it wasn't important to him, but I know it is. I know he watches it everyday when I am at work or go to the store or just when ever he can. I told him I wasn't mad that I watch it but a little hurt that he doesn't make love to me anymore. So then he denied watching it. Why would he do this when I already know? Why would he say his shemale dvd isn't important to him when I know it is?
If you all knew me personally, you would see that in reality if I was your real friend...you would have a person to talk to about this and wouldn't judge you, make fun of you, call you names .....etc...you get the point. someone said labels are for canned foods not pepole. they are right. an ex boyfriend of mine that dressed in womans cloths told me..I was too good to be true he couldn't believe how well I accepted him, I went out to eat with him in public many of times while he was dressed, walked around the block did whatever. I saw the person he was on the inside and thats who I loved and I accepted everything that came along with him.....So being that I was too good to be true, he dumped me. I was crushed. I bought him womans stuff etc... I guess he couldn't handle the fact that I knew I guess.

So really, obviously he likes shemales but to what extent?! I have no idea. He wont be open with me about it. SO for real if I were to wear a strap on and walk into the bedroom, you don't think he would freak out? I do have to say that after fingering him and asking him if he wanted me to go further or take it to another level I would and when he asked I told him toys and he said yes. So I got the toys but we haven't used them yet. Is it because he is afraid of what I might think if we do use the toys?

[tlover]

Originally Posted by Imconfused

I would use a strap on, on my boyfriend if he asked and yes it would make me happy cause I am making him happy. I don't know exactly what he is into or how far he wants to go with anal. The only thing I have used is my finger, he seemed to like it. Im a bit afraid that if I put on a strap on and go into the room he might be like get f&ck out. Then what.
The only reason I told him about me not telling anyone if him and I were to break up is because he brought it up first, I just wanted to reassure him.

Before he left for work just a little bit ago. I had asked him all that stuff about why he hasn't been making love to me and the strap on, the only thing he said was to get rid of the dvd it wasn't important to him, but I know it is. I know he watches it everyday when I am at work or go to the store or just when ever he can. I told him I wasn't mad that I watch it but a little hurt that he doesn't make love to me anymore. So then he denied watching it. Why would he do this when I already know? Why would he say his shemale dvd isn't important to him when I know it is?
If you all knew me personally, you would see that in reality if I was your real friend...you would have a person to talk to about this and wouldn't judge you, make fun of you, call you names .....etc...you get the point. someone said labels are for canned foods not pepole. they are right. an ex boyfriend of mine that dressed in womans cloths told me..I was too good to be true he couldn't believe how well I accepted him, I went out to eat with him in public many of times while he was dressed, walked around the block did whatever. I saw the person he was on the inside and thats who I loved and I accepted everything that came along with him.....So being that I was too good to be true, he dumped me. I was crushed. I bought him womans stuff etc... I guess he couldn't handle the fact that I knew I guess.

So really, obviously he likes shemales but to what extent?! I have no idea. He wont be open with me about it. SO for real if I were to wear a strap on and walk into the bedroom, you don't think he would freak out? I do have to say that after fingering him and asking him if he wanted me to go further or take it to another level I would and when he asked I told him toys and he said yes. So I got the toys but we haven't used them yet. Is it because he is afraid of what I might think if we do use the toys?

I think its mainly about him being afraid of what you might think of him and the consequence's, and its not all about you, in the outside world there is a very big stigma attached to this kind of thing for a man.
Maybe instead of trying to talk to him you should ease off for a while and just attempt to make love and slowly introduce more anal play, mabey you could ask him to do it to you as well to ease the situation.
Before long you might get to this with him:D
Good luck

[tgirl virgin]

This may sound silly,. but when I have to take a big crap, when it's coming out, I get the sensation, like euphoria, sometimes. It feels like an anal orgasm!!!

It's not just relief, it's like "Oh GOD!! and I shudder and afterwards, feel relaxed, like I just had a great orgasm. I feel like going to sleep afterwards.

Not always, sometimes it's just a feeling of relief (maybe it's in my mind, because I enjoy taking a crap so much sometimes)

I think a "G-Spot" can be anywhere that gives you an intense feeling of pleasure, more than any other spot. (minus the penis, and clit on a woman)

[vapour159]

Originally Posted by Imconfused

I would use a strap on, on my boyfriend if he asked and yes it would make me happy cause I am making him happy. I don't know exactly what he is into or how far he wants to go with anal. The only thing I have used is my finger, he seemed to like it. Im a bit afraid that if I put on a strap on and go into the room he might be like get f&ck out. Then what.
The only reason I told him about me not telling anyone if him and I were to break up is because he brought it up first, I just wanted to reasure him.

Before he left for work just a little bit ago. I had asked him all that stuff about why he hasn't been making love to me and the strap on, the only thing he said was to get rid of the dvd it wasn't important to him, but I know it is. I know he watches it everyday when I am at work or go to the store or just when ever he can. I told him I wasn't mad that I watch it but a little hurt that he doesn't make love to me anymore. So then he denied watching it. Why would he do this when I already know? Why would he say his shemale dvd isn't important to him when I know it is?
If you all knew me personally, you would see that in reality if I was your real friend...you would have a person to talk to about this and wouldn't judge you, make fun of you, call you names .....etc...you get the point. someone said labels are for canned foods not pepole. they are right. an ex boyfriend of mine that dressed in womans cloths told me..I was too good to be true he couldn't believe how well I accepted him, I went out to eat with him in public many of times while he was dressed, walked around the block did whatever. I saw the person he was on the inside and thats who I loved and I accepted everything that came along with him.....So being that I was too good to be true, he dumped me. I was crushed. I bought him womans stuff etc... I guess he couldn't handle the fact that I knew I guess.

So really, obviously he likes shemales but to what extent?! I have no idea. He wont be open with me about it. SO for real if I were to wear a strap on and walk into the bedroom, you don't think he would freak out? I do have to say that after fingering him and asking him if he wanted me to go further or take it to another level I would and when he asked I told him toys and he said yes. So I got the toys but we haven't used them yet. Is it because he is afraid of what I might think if we do use the toys?

Hi imconfused why can't i meet someone like you perfect partner for someone with likes different to the norm broad and openmined willing to explore and experiment, I totally agree with tlover's advice its him not you looking at this from a guy's point of view and also sharing the same fascination with shemales and ts's and the desire to have a sexual encounter with one, also the enjoyment of anal stimulation (with either finger or toy) as your bf i find it hard and embarrassing to talk about with a partner for the same reasons as tlover explained ,to have these desires as a male is taboo eg; two women kissing or having sex together perfectly acceptable two men on the other hand woh! frowned upon, strange eh! he will know if any of his friends found out he would feel like its the end of the world. When i said take the lead i didn't mean walk into the bed room with a strapon already on like right "right boy you want this then thats what your getting ready or not " that would scare the pants of me i meant have them close to hand and if the mood felt like it was heading that way be ready to slip it on and up,

[Imconfused]

Originally Posted by vapour159

Hi imconfused why can't i meet someone like you perfect partner for someone with likes different to the norm broad and openmined willing to explore and experiment, I totally agree with tlover's advice its him not you looking at this from a guy's point of view and also sharing the same fascination with shemales and ts's and the desire to have a sexual encounter with one, also the enjoyment of anal stimulation (with either finger or toy) as your bf i find it hard and embarrassing to talk about with a partner for the same reasons as tlover explained ,to have these desires as a male is taboo eg; two women kissing or having sex together perfectly acceptable two men on the other hand woh! frowned upon, strange eh! he will know if any of his friends found out he would feel like its the end of the world. When i said take the lead i didn't mean walk into the bed room with a strapon already on like right "right boy you want this then thats what your getting ready or not " that would scare the pants of me i meant have them close to hand and if the mood felt like it was heading that way be ready to slip it on and up,

Yeah but what is the point in having someone like me ( and I am not talking about you) When someone can't accept the fact that I accept them. As much as I say I accept him with no judgement or labels, he still denies it. So in the thread if your wife/gf wanted to be a substitute, I wrote what I wanted to do, So I wrote him a letter and left it before I went to work and at the end of that I wrote..If you don't tell me NO get ready for me to walk in one day and for that to happen. He hasn't said NO.
Also I had said he told me to get rid of the she-male dvd. I didn't I just have it with me, but see we have a teddy bear nanny cam right. It records everything..He searched high and low for that DVD and seems upset he couldn't find it....I know he will go buy another one..and like I have said I don't care...but really why deny something if a woman is sitting there telling you, you accept her. I understand what you are saying here as far as it is difficult and usually not accepted. But when it is accepted..run with it....Like I said in another thread..I am no shemale by anymeans but I can be a substitute. I know it isn't the same thing....Well you get my point...

[tlover]

Originally Posted by Imconfused

Tlover, I can see your point because to be completely honest with you. At first those are all the thoughts that I had running through my head.
One I love my boyfriend and knowing he's interested in shemales doesn't make me love or think any less of him. I would assume he isn't gay if he is with me. And if for some reason if our relationship ever ended, that is his private life and I wouldn't tell a soul or use it against him in anyway. I just wish he could be completely open with me and tell me why he hasn't been making love to me

How long has he not been making love to you, is it just while he's had this shemale infactuation or longer?
Have you just found out abut his liking of shemales? maby he just feels too awkward and ashamed about it to make love.
Being completely open about something like this for a man is very difficult, terrifying, i think you need to tell him what you said here and keep reassuring him.
I think you both need to do a lot of talking.
Blimey i sound like an agony aunt:D

[Imconfused]

Originally Posted by tlover

How long has he not been making love to you, is it just while he's had this shemale infactuation or longer?
Have you just found out abut his liking of shemales? maby he just feels too awkward and ashamed about it to make love.
Being completely open about something like this for a man is very difficult, terrifying, i think you need to tell him what you said here and keep reassuring him.
I think you both need to do a lot of talking.
Blimey i sound like an agony aunt:D

Well in the last 30 days it has been about 2 times we had sex but anal and it was over fast. I don't know how long he has had the shemale infactuation. I know one time I found a dvd and he said it was his friends but I now know it was his. I really found out about june/july of this year. I have told him we need to talk but he wont. I wish he would talk about it and just tell me what turns him on about them and what he wants to do in the bedroom....I am very easy to get along with.

[LonelySatyr]

The male g-spot is real, and it feels great!

Unfortunately I do not have a partner that seems very comfortable with exploring this kind of thing. Some people get intimidated by the sexual connotations of anything anal. If you stick something up your butt, you must be sick/gay/weirdo etc.

Well think about it this way, why would it feel good to men to have their prostrate stimulated if it wasn't supposed to be used? The human body is a great and wonderful device that has many component parts which all have a specific purpose, (or in the case of the appendix, once had a specific purpose that is no longer used)

The arguments against anal stimulation are just as wrong headed as the arguments against female clitoral stimulation. The male has a clitoris (of sorts) and it is located in the ass. Women do not have it, and while they can enjoy anal sex, they cannot experience it on the level men can.

[tezt]

you could always suggest a strap-on to your wife or girlfriend if you think it wont upset them.

[Imconfused]

Originally Posted by LonelySatyr

The male g-spot is real, and it feels great!

Unfortunately I do not have a partner that seems very comfortable with exploring this kind of thing. Some people get intimidated by the sexual connotations of anything anal. If you stick something up your butt, you must be sick/gay/weirdo etc.

Well think about it this way, why would it feel good to men to have their prostrate stimulated if it wasn't supposed to be used? The human body is a great and wonderful device that has many component parts which all have a specific purpose, (or in the case of the appendix, once had a specific purpose that is no longer used)

The arguments against anal stimulation are just as wrong headed as the arguments against female clitoral stimulation. The male has a clitoris (of sorts) and it is located in the ass. Women do not have it, and while they can enjoy anal sex, they cannot experience it on the level men can.

After I have read up on so much, I can now say that I don't think that way.
As far as woman having orgasms from anal penetration it can happen. My boyfriend and I have anal sex and I have had many orgasms this way. It really isn't any different then having a vaginal orgasm though
May I ask the men here that have had anal orgasms what is the difference and do you ejaculate? Was just curious cause once while giving my bf a bj and having my finger in his anus, he cam but it seemed different to me because he said he came but there was no cum..So I was curious
Thanks