Would a TS escorting rule out romance?

[CreativeMind]

Originally Posted by ila

You're really reaching now. As you go about your daily life the actions of Melissa in no way impact on you. Nor does her choice of what she does reflect on who you are, what you are, or what you do. No one forms an opinion of you based on what Melissa does.

It's not a reach at all -- it's just you siding with Melissa and not even getting the point that I was making.
In fact, you ultimately ended up AGREEING with me, Ila.

You just said (quote): "You're really reaching now. As you go about your daily life the actions of Melissa in no way impact on you."

Well, compare that to what I actually said before (quote): "Yes, it's true that Melissa's day-to-day activities as an escort may not have an effect on our own day-to-day lives since they don't actually intersect."

Gee, seems to me I said the exact same thing!
So what are you bitching about?!

Nowhere in my posts did I condemn Melissa FOR being an escort. All I did was answer her original question. And for the record, here's my answer again: I think most guys would want the PRETTY WOMAN movie ending. Given this particular dramatic scenario (as postulated by Melissa), a guy would meet a TS...they'd fall in love...but once he found out that she was working as an escort, he'd want her to give up her job -- whether she found something else to do or whether he supported her himself -- so their romance could continue on. And so it would be on far more stable emotional ground. Period, end of story. That's my opinion, and I think most guys...on average...would feel that way.

And for the record, that's NOT even an indictment on someone who chooses to work as an escort. That's not a pro or con statement on the profession. Frankly, what it IS a statement about is the emotional state of most guys. That most guys wouldn't feel comfortable knowing that their significant other was a sex worker. Hell, we're talking about your lover working as an escort -- about her actually having sex with other people. Most guys I know who have even dated strippers or cam girls, who simply take their clothes off and get naked for other guys (and no sex is involved) likewise want their GFs to quit their jobs once the romance turns serious. That's just the way it normally goes for most guys.

Now, Ila, if you want to side with Melissa in everything she says and does, that's fine. That's YOUR choice and it's you voicing YOUR opinion based on YOUR beliefs about what's right and wrong. In the end, it's a reflection of YOUR personal standards and what YOU believe in.

Which was exactly the point of my post, which you missed completely.

Bottom line again: Melissa asked us all a question, the answer to which ultimately revealed each of our own moral standards and beliefs. That was the whole POINT of her question -- which is why it was a fun question to begin with. Not because it had a right or wrong answer, but because the answer that each person gave would ultimately say and reveal something about THEMSELVES.

So, I stand by what I said. HOW we all answered IS a reflection on each of us because it reveals what we EACH believe.

[O'Sully TS Hopeful]

Luckily for me I have a good job that allow me complete a transition. But I'm positive I will be fired from it once I do transition. The reason I say this is because it happened to the transwoman that worked there last year. When my boss found out that she was not genetic he told her that if she sucked him off he would allow her to keep her job. She did and he fired her anyway saying to her "do you really think I'd keep a freal like you on my workforce." While he spat at her.

This transwoman happens to be a good friend of mine. She is helping me with my transition. But she finds it extremely hard to find a job in the city being that she is a transwoman. So she decided that she would be an escort. And she finds the job rather fulfilling.

If I run into the same situation I also may CHOOSE to become an escort. And there is nothing wrong with that. I can only hope that I will meet a man that is understanding and doesn't care that I am an escort, if I CHOSE to become one.

And by the way smolderingtemptress, I have a masters degree and still might not be able to get a job or might just CHOSE to escort because for all I know I might like it. So please sit back and stop implying that transwomen who escort are basically crap. Because they aren't and just for implying it, you're the one who is CRAP.

Originally Posted by O'Sully TS Hopeful

Luckily for me I have a good job that allow me complete a transition. But I'm positive I will be fired from it once I do transition. The reason I say this is because it happened to the transwoman that worked there last year. When my boss found out that she was not genetic he told her that if she sucked him off he would allow her to keep her job. She did and he fired her anyway saying to her "do you really think I'd keep a freal like you on my workforce." While he spat at her.

This transwoman happens to be a good friend of mine. She is helping me with my transition. But she finds it extremely hard to find a job in the city being that she is a transwoman. So she decided that she would be an escort. And she finds the job rather fulfilling.

If I run into the same situation I also may CHOOSE to become an escort. And there is nothing wrong with that. I can only hope that I will meet a man that is understanding and doesn't care that I am an escort, if I CHOSE to become one.

And by the way smolderingtemptress, I have a masters degree and still might not be able to get a job or might just CHOSE to escort because for all I know I might like it. So please sit back and stop implying that transwomen who escort are basically crap. Because they aren't and just for implying it, you're the one who is CRAP.

I wish you luck Gianna and I can tell you are the real deal.

Please be careful at your job, I've been fired five times since coming out. The corporate world is not interested in women like us. At least not on any high level.

[O'Sully TS Hopeful]

Originally Posted by TSmelissacarter

I wish you luck Gianna and I can tell you are the real deal.

Please be careful at your job, I've been fired five times since coming out. The corporate world is not interested in women like us. At least not on any high level.

Thanks so much, and in a job I'm 100% positive I'll be fired. I don't know maybe they think big breast will get in the way of pouring chemicals. Or maybe they think I'll distract the co-workers to much.

Oh, by the way your dick looks so suckable. I'd also love to have it in my ass.

[DL_NL]

You'd never be fired for that in Holland, you'd have a good case against them in court. Move to a less conservative country!

[Talvenada]

Originally Posted by O'Sully TS Hopeful

Thanks so much, and in a job I'm 100% positive I'll be fired. I don't know maybe they think big breast will get in the way of pouring chemicals. Or maybe they think I'll distract the co-workers to much.

Oh, by the way your dick looks so suckable. I'd also love to have it in my ass.

GIANNA,

It's probably fear of temptation, of their own vulnerability, of the unknown, of an unsuspecting co-worker falling into your lustful trap w/ all the problems that would affect workforce productivity. Ergo, their imagination would dwarf reality.

Piece,


TAL

[O'Sully TS Hopeful]

Originally Posted by Talvenada

GIANNA,

It's probably fear of temptation, of their own vulnerability, of the unknown, of an unsuspecting co-worker falling into your lustful trap w/ all the problems that would affect workforce productivity. Ergo, their imagination would dwarf reality.

Piece,


TAL

Honestly thats exactly what I think. And how knows maybe I'll be so damn attractive that my employer won't be able to close his mouth, from drooling so much, to say the words. Then I'll be extremely happy.:D