Would a TS escorting rule out romance?

Originally Posted by ila

I agree with you Melissa. It is a good bonafide question and it deserves respect and honest answers. Some people may not agree with the question or even the OP, but that is no reason to denigrate the OP or the question.

Thank you for the support Ila.

These people talk all day long about TS, about who's cock they wanna suck, which TS should piss on them, who is the hottest TS, and then when they finally get to talk to one they don't know the first thing about basic common decency.

Don't piss off a TS you have no idea what a pissed off TS is like and you don't want to know.

[Bionca]

Melissa.. yeah I think this is a valid question... and a complicated one. I would have so say that if I was the least bit lesbian, I would have no issue dating a current or former sex-worker... after all, a gal's gotta eat.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by TSmelissacarter

[COLOR="DarkRed"]Thank you for the support Ila.

These people talk all day long about TS, about who's cock they wanna suck, which TS should piss on them, who is the hottest TS, and then when they finally get to talk to one they don't know the first thing about basic common decency.

For some reason I thought (hoped) it was different for "working girls". Like the guys would be more respectful or something... not sure why.

Originally Posted by Bionca

For some reason I thought (hoped) it was different for "working girls". Like the guys would be more respectful or something... not sure why.

Thank you Bionca

We get zero respect most of the time from our clients. You can't imagine the stories I could tell, the crap guys pull. If I want respect I look elsewhere.

In my personal life I am highly respected and without boasting too much, guys hit on me all day long. However, once they know I'm an escort, it changes. All of a sudden I'm a casualty of society's war. All of a sudden I'm damaged goods.

[cham]

Hi Melissa,

It's a valid question. I would leave the decision to the girl and if she wanted to continue working, I'd have no problems with it. So long as there is trust, I don't think the physical body matters much. However, I'd like her to be chosy about her clients, especially since I'd want to spend time with her!

Cham

[plblove]

I don't think it matters if she is an escort when you meet, as long as one is able to accept that when that relationship develops that she would consider not doing it anymore and letting me take care of her, but if she would want to continue the work after we were in a relationship I would have to think about staying if she wanted to keep working.

[bigforarse]

Ok none of this maters wheter its tgirl or your wife or gf. None of this bs phycholigal mumbo jumbo means anything.
Any relationship, no matter what, LOVE, TRUST, RESPECT and TOTAL HONESTY.
If u have all those nothing matters at all outside of that, ie if that means having sex as a job, or for pleasure so what?
If anyone knew real love u would understand that no questions or dilemmas need apply!

Originally Posted by bigforarse

Ok none of this maters wheter its tgirl or your wife or gf. None of this bs phycholigal mumbo jumbo means anything.
Any relationship, no matter what, LOVE, TRUST, RESPECT and TOTAL HONESTY.
If u have all those nothing matters at all outside of that, ie if that means having sex as a job, or for pleasure so what?
If anyone knew real love u would understand that no questions or dilemmas need apply!

Well thats pretty elitist and offers nothing to the conversation. Fact is, being a sex worker does complicate things and that is the purpose of the poll. You guys need to stop swimmimng in fantasyland and think about the reality. You guys speak in idealistic terms and describe a near perfect universe where men respect and treat TS wonderfully but the reality is it's all talk. Ther reality is you are in your cubicle and the boss is not watching so you can mutter a few grand thoughts to the crowd in between projects.

I'm sick of the false reality I smell on this forum and I'm gonna keep it fresh and real. Most of you have not even dated a TS let alone had a relationship with one.