Married but into shemales?

[Pedro DB]

I was married and to a beautiful GG. I introduced her to a local Transgender Nightclub in East London. She loved it. I think she would've been up for a 3-some but we never managed to agree on who the 3rd person would be. There is no doubt in my mind now that she was threatened by how good looking the T-Girl was.

I've been divorced now for 3 years. I don't really know if it was my ongoing fantasy about T-Girls that caused the break-up but it certainly didn't help. IMO fantasy is very good as long as it doesn't become an obsession (Areeya...) and get in the way of 'real' life. My comment would be "Be careful what you wish for. You just might get it all.. and then some you don't want".

I lost my home and my family but every cloud has it's silver lining and mine was leaving the UK and living in Thailand. Ladyboys are everywhere here. Some very beautiful. Some not. Some very good, kind natured souls. Some slightly drug crazed thieves. Fortunately, I haven't had any dealings with the latter - but I do know people who have..

So the fantasy and reality live alongside each other. Same as with everything. I'm happy to say that for me the fantasy has come true but at quite a cost. My current girlfriend, Anny, is both stunning looking and truly beautiful person too (see pic). It will be interesting to see how things what happens in the months to come

[DL_NL]

It all boils down to how much you want to give up your current life and hurt everyone concerned to hunt down your -possibly disappointing- ideal.

Just think of it this way: dreaming is not adultery.

When married life is good, I know what I'd do. Good luck with your decision.

[Pedro DB]

Just to be clear. I did not want to lose my family and would never have considered leaving my wife to live with a Ladyboy. There was a complex set of issues that caused the demise of our marriage.

My advice would be stick with reality and treasure what you have. However, having lost everything, there was nothing stopping me fulfilling my fantasy. The fantasy has now become reality and it is pretty much everything I hoped it would be. For you, it could be totally different. I guess it just depends on your expectations.

Good luck, whatever you decide.